Everyone says they want to find the "one" I am wondering if you think that there is only "one" that is to be the person I should marry. Do I look for that one, or are they supposed to find me?
2006-10-13 09:22:35 · 14 answers · asked by breath4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are lots of ones until you marry one, and then YOU make that person THE one and only.
2006-10-13 09:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont look, and dont expect them to find you. For some people there may not be ONE, but for most there is. There may be more then ONE that is compatible with you. When you find that one person, you will know it. I have been married twice. I thought my first husband was the ONE. We were together for almost 6 years before we got married and our marriage didnt last 7 months before he left me. Hindsight is 20/20 tho. I am married again and I love this man more then anything. We have been through hell and back. I believe after everything we have been thru that nothing could be worse. I think we can make it thru anything, and he tells me the same thing all the time. Granted, we have talked about divorce a time or two, and actually filed once. I dont believe in divorce, but we almost did it. But we worked thru it and made things better. We learn from our mistakes. I think that is what makes us meant to be. We may or may not be together in 50 years. But only time will tell. Keep living your life, you will find the ONE someday trust me!
2006-10-13 16:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by countrygirl66032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K.
Well its like this out of the nearly 6.66 Billion...people in the world, there is more than ONE person...you should marry.
Maths is very complex, but if we say that there was only ONE....then your odds of finding that ONE...would be close to impossible.!
Put your mind to rest...but in order to find that one guy who is right, you have to look in the right places...Bars and clubs may not be the right places...Not for a lifelong partner.
The other thing you have to remember: Marriage is a full time job...and its not about that one wonderful day?
So unless you want heartache, you need to 'know' that you want to marry...for a long time.It is now thought to be a 'trow-away-idea'' if things get bad....I agree if they were beyond hope...But
67% of people fail...in marriage-today.
So please forget that one day...and having someone to share popcorn with, unless your prepair for the long haul.
Children born into unhappy homes, become victims......Your life purpose...maybe to change our world.....
But, marriage in not for the faint hearted.I should know after 2 trys.
2006-10-13 16:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is just "one". There are too many people on Earth for that to be logical. There are some great relationships, though. When you find the person you want to marry, you will both know. The harder you look for it, the longer it will take. Just let it happen.
2006-10-13 16:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think this is a question that bothers many people. I dont think there is only one person for everyone but rather that there are many that may be compatible with you. and when the time is right and you arent looking, it will happen
2006-10-13 16:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by sexy j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are suppose to be several. Make sure you have found them ALL before you get married!
2006-10-13 16:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"The One" is a romantic fable, it is not true. It's just another romantic myth in our society.
There are, in fact, many possible choices of people you could end up with.
2006-10-13 16:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not sure. ive been wondering that. i think there is one boy out there who is searching for me and im searching for him, i dont know if i'll ever find him but i know i'll at least meet him. but if i screw it up, i'll have missed my shot. i think that when i meet him, i will know and feel it inside, it will be indisputable and i wont be confused.
2006-10-13 16:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Justina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are tens of thousands of 'the one'. Be picky and you'll get one.
2006-10-13 16:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they usually find you so don't worry.
if you're in the twenties.. you'll find the one by yourself
if you're in the thirties.....your parents will find the one
if you're in the fourties... not even god will find you the one.
2006-10-13 16:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by yaz20100 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋