he left his im open while sleepping and i read it. they are in love and wants to be together spend their life together. i believe they are seeing each other in person. i want to know for sure
2006-10-13 09:00:36 · 18 answers · asked by LOIS T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want to contact her?
Your husband is a liar.. he probably told her that he was single.
confront him and decide whether you can accept the further web of lies he is going to spin. Be prepared for his defensive response of privacy and all that crap... The ball is in your court. You would not be wise to confront this person, you will just look like an idiot. confront your husband.
2006-10-13 09:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Just me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If what you say is true, then it is already too late. What's the point of finding out about this woman. You should just confront him with what you found, and ask him what's going on, and what he wants to do from this point on. If he saids that he is in love with this other woman, and he wants to spend his life with her, then you should let him go. So get yourself ready and start packing.
2006-10-13 09:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Natalia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get her details then what ? It might take time and cause a lot of heartache for you. And what exactly do you expect her to tell you?Sneaking around is not going to change anything but it will hurt you in a process.
Just confront him and get all the cards on the table . It will be much more painless for you and you might get the answers to all your questions .
2006-10-13 09:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have her IM, create a new IM account with a guy's name and see if you can start talking to her and she will give you any info. Either that or you can use your husbands IM and just start chatting with her and see what she has to say. Pretend you are him...by the time she figures it out that you are his wife, you will know all you need to know...
2006-10-13 09:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why talk to her, talk to your husband. Confront him with what you found. If you don't, sounds like he is going to be coming to you soon to ask for a divorce. If you need to talk to her that bad, you have her im address now, so talk to her, tell her you know about her. She may not even know he is married.
2006-10-13 10:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sneak around. Confront him with the evidence that you did find. If you go out of your way to snoop, then he will have something to hold against you. Be the bigger person. What more evidence do you need, anyway?
2006-10-13 09:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by JillA 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look at her profile. You can find out all of her personal information through Intelluis on line. Find out her e-mail provider. Go to that site and look her up under the sites people/profiles.
Good luck
2006-10-13 09:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better get everything in your name before he dumps you. Max out the credit cards by buying lots of essentials.
2006-10-13 09:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he does leave it open...pretend to be him and talk to her...then tell her who you really are and be polite...she may not know he is married. Then I would get some concealing / if not divorce.
2006-10-13 09:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mom to Foster Children 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know everything you need to know. When he goes to work, put all of his stuff on the curb and change the locks to the house.
He'll figure it out.
2006-10-13 09:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋