My bestfriend slept with a guy that I work with, he sweet talked her for a while got what he wanted and then didn't talk to her after that. I made the mistake of telling a person that I confided in when she asked why I suddenly disliked him so much. Somehow it got out that I told what happened. I apoligized to exhaustion. Shes my bf but shes not a saint, she sleeps with alot of different guys and shes not afraid to hide it, I understand why shes mad, but if its not a secret that she sleeps around why cant she forgive me? Her ex punced her she still sleeps with him, her other ex has broken her heart a million times and she still sleeps with him, the guy who I told about that ditched her after he got what he wanted shes talking to him again, how can I get her to forgive me and also see my point of view, I didn't say it to gossip, I said it so that my friend could know what a jerk he was.
2006-10-13 08:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
punced her is supposed to be punched.
2006-10-13 08:55:47 · update #1
She will get over it. She is probably more angry with herself (and embarassed, too!) than with what you said. In a round about way, you called her on her bad habits. It sounds like she has self esteem problems, and she needs help. She at least needs to take her frustrations elsewhere, not on you.
2006-10-13 08:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once kind of in that situation. I stayed with a man that was abusive and cheating on me. I had a friend that listend to me and counciled me for 5 years regarding that jerk!! well, my friend gave up on our relationship because i was making him winded. I am not with that person either. i learned that I was under my ex's control that I could not see a true friend even if they punched me in the face. You should detach from your friend for a while. She will come around. and when she does, you be her friend. She will learn her lesson.
After 5 years, my friend is back in my life again. i have learned my lesson as for how I manage all my relationships. Good Luck
2006-10-13 09:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by spiseemami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you girl. I think if she is your best friend that you need to pull her off to the side and say " Look, I know that I hurt you, but it wasn't intentionally." We're best friends and I dont want that to change. I made a dumb choice, but that doesnt mean that you ditch me. Friends are suppose to forgive and forget, and if she's a true one that is what she'll do. But next time, dont say nothing? You know buissness leaks out like it aint nothin!
2006-10-13 09:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by gagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident, forgive is a relieving to our very own soul. you're already in hell in case you have no longer forgiven. meaning they nonetheless administration your thoughts. that's significant to forgive, because of the fact then your heavenly Father can forgive you. whilst someone holds a grudge against somebody, that's like maximum cancers ingesting away at them the place at some point it's going to overtake them.
2016-10-02 06:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is to exhausting to even care about. Just find a new friend, after awhile she will realize what a whore she is and that you are right. Then let her come back and apologize til she is exhausted, she will figure it out.
2006-10-13 08:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hhehehe ur friend is a slut ahahah those are the type of girls i like bf sluts grrr ok all jokes aside tell your friend that you are very sorry for what you have done if there is anyway you can make her forgive u you will do it tell her i love you and i dont want to loose your friendship
2006-10-13 08:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that there is no reasong u should be worried about.
at the first place , she needn't be mad at you, if she is then its her stupidness. and she will realize and forgive you.
so, u're cool.
* and in context of this question, i would say, nobody else is our problem, its just WE, ourselves. and only we.
2006-10-13 09:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by coldfish85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the incredibly BAD friendship it is???.
Move on and give me a brake.
2006-10-13 08:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAMP YOUR FEET DOWN!!!!
You don't need to hang out with her. She should ask for your forgiveness!
2006-10-13 08:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soo much drama--your screwed
2006-10-13 08:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Aycilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋