2006-10-13 08:54:14 · 17 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just tell her that's who you are, and it's not something you're doing to upset her. tell her you can't help it, that you're just attracted to women, and not men, and that you lover her and hope she can accept you for who you are. she's you mother, and she loves you. it may be hard for her right now, just to swollow the idea, but give her time. she'll come around.
2006-10-13 08:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. Give it some time. Alot of Lesbian Ladies discover they injoy both sexes a little latter down
the road. What a wonderful thing that could be. Let Mom be Mom, and live your life. Sometimes it very hard to be a parent. You will never understand that until you stand in her shoes. Don't be to hard on Mom, its a tough job. Let time heal things, and see where your sexual desires lead. Life is funny, not fare.
2006-10-13 09:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by megofish2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like mom isn't willing to come to terms with your sexual choice. Unfortunatley, neither is mine, so she doesn't know. I am a married mom of three, but still enjoy women's company sometimes. As far as she knows, we just have a lot of female friends. My little sister is having the same problem as well, and my mom refuses to speak to her right now.
Its hard to make her see that this is something you want, but hopefully she will understand for both of your sakes.
Good luck, and try talking to her.
2006-10-13 09:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by tiggerluv252000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't give up girl! There's an orginization for parent and friends of gays....www.pflag.com Have your Mom check it out.And good luck having the courage to be who you are!
2006-10-13 09:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant. but if she really loves you she'll love you for who you are not what you are. just talk to her maturely and calmly. dont get into a fight with her, ull never get anywhere with an attitude like that. give her time im sure its hard to cope with. good luck
2006-10-13 08:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll hopefully come to terms that you have a different lifestyle than what she envisioned for you. Good luck.
2006-10-13 08:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. Bad situation. Just sit her down and explain that she is your mother and she should respect you for who you are and the desisions you make. Good luck and best wishes. bye
2006-10-13 08:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. well she has to eventually come to terms with it. give her time to understand n tell her ur open to answering any qestions she might have.
good luck babes
x
2006-10-13 10:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys should have a heart to heart. tell her that you love her and this is your life and you are a lesbian. she is your mother so she will love you no matter what. :)
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-13 09:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually have sex with a woman. Maybe she just doesn't believe you. You're young aren't you?
2006-10-13 08:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋