all my friends are 18 19 and have gone away, some have kids
i remember in highchool i had tons of friend i was part of the popular croud i uesd to kiss and hug all the cute girls i was very happy my budy cyle was still in kingston we uesd to have so much fun. now i am in college 19 yearsold and a desprate looser non of my friends from highschool call me cyle is now in film school and dosent even email me or anything, the only friends i have now is the people who i get drunk with how did i go from being hero to zero and is there a way life to become stable again please i need some awnsers
2006-10-13 08:52:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OMFG i know exactly how you feel!!! we should get together and have a tea party. i was the sh*t in high school, i did my hair up every day and i had great makeup and tons of friends and i was always so busy and going out every weekend, and i was a cheerleader and had tons of guys all over me, and now im 22 and in college, and its like everyone there is so stuck up and too busy to have any fun, its like they're actually there to learn instead of to gossip and pass notes! you know what, its like, there was a time for that, and its passed. i'd like to tell you that it gets better, but unfortunately, it just doesn't. the best years of your life have passed and people expect you to grow up and get married. suck!
2006-10-13 08:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Justina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you need to stop hanging out with the drunk. Next you need to focus on the fact that you are not in high school anymore. Sometimes people grown out of each other, or maybe your friends are just so busy trying to get themselves together they don't know how to coupe witht the change just like yourself. If Cyle is really your friend you two will meet up again, and when ya'll do it will be on fire. It may be by e-mail, telephone, or maybe in person. Just when ya'll do meet up again you make sure your are ready to show him the man you have become.
2006-10-13 08:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Heaven 2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world. Remember all of those people who you "cool" kids made fun of? Well it's there turn! You peaked in high school. I have been out of high school for over 10 years and I ran into one of the "cool" kids. He is in a failing marriage, has 2 kids, and no job. Me, I have a great girl, awesome job, 2006 BMW. My point is the "cool" kids from high school always want to go back cause that is where they were top dog. Well, you can't go back so stop trying.
2006-10-13 08:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like your parents always told ya....there's more to life than socializing! Now you are getting a dose of it. You are growing up and it is just part of the game. Yeah, it sucks and you miss your friends, but it will get easier. Why don't you give them a call if you miss them that much? Couldn't hurt.
2006-10-13 08:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens so often with a lot of people so don't get down on yourself. You're still very young you just need to make new friends that's all!
2006-10-13 08:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Amaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋