the way i see it if anyone is going to be stripping for my husband it's going to be me
I am not in a relationship this is just information for later on in life
2006-10-13 08:44:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure! Get the Carmen Electra Stripperobics collection. I bought them and my husband loves the results! It is so much fun, a great workout, and you feel incredible! I definitely recommend it for anyone! And if your a worried about your future husband going to strip clubs, then that just depends on the kind of man you marry. My husband knows he has everything he needs waiting for him at home! Be the kinda of woman to never say NO when it comes to sex. (Unless of course you are sick or something.) Be his wife, friend, sex slave, mistress, erotic dancer, be whatever he wants! If you marry the right kind of guy, one who loves you and knows you are totally devoted to him, he won't stray!
2006-10-13 08:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Snow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel that way. I am of the opinion that as long as he doesn't do anything other than watch the stripper/ lapdancer then it's fine. It's only the same as him getting an eyeful of a scantily clad girlie in a club somewhere or girls in bikinis on the beach (or just walking about the streets these days lol). I don't even mind him dancing with these girls, or rating them out of 10 or whatever... I even join in with the ratings if we're out together! :-) I'm not lucky enough to be a size 8 with a fantastic body, and I accept that some of these girls look waaaay better than me, but at the end of the day, my man comes home to me not anyone else. If my fiancé wants a stripper for his stag, that's fine with me! I'd go along with them but I'm not invited hehe! I can't have a go at what he wants to do, it's his life! And if he runs away with the stripper? Well then he wasn't worth your time in the first place.
2016-05-21 23:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women should learn to strip!!
But if your future mate happens to visit a strip club, it's not the end of the world. Sure lots of guys have an unhealthy obsession with it, but for most it's the same as browsing the new car showroom once in a while. You just want to see what the new models look like.....with no intention of trading the old one in.
So here's a good one. If he does frequent a strip club in the future, use those stripping lessons to show up on stage on amateur night. It would either shock him ot make his fantasy come true.
2006-10-13 08:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Use another Nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, only do it if you want to...by stripping for your partner it will not keep him away from the clubs, that is if he is even into it in the first place. A good question to ask in the beginning of your dating is "do you go to strip clubs"? If you are interested in men who do not go to strip clubs, then you can find them, not all men like those kind of places.
2006-10-13 08:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stripping is about fantasy. Men can have the most georgous wife at home but they will still want to go, and will go to a strip club. This is just men. Another example is that no matter how hot the sex is at home, your husband will still watch porn... it's just one of those things!!
If you accept it now, it won't affect you later on in life.
2006-10-13 08:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,, you would want a husband that respects how you feel on certain issues, such as him going to strip clubs. I wouldn't do it to ''keep him from going to titty bars'', cause he's a man, and your not his mother....your his wife ( hypothetically speaking).
If you think that once married that'll be a fun, erotic, exciting, and fulfilling way to satisfy your husband, then by all means, get ya practice on!! But don't think for minute you'll be able to control your husbands every move. You'll be sorry.
2006-10-13 08:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The strip tease should also be for you, not just your mate. It should make you feel sexy and desirable too.
If he wants to go to a strip club then he's going to go regardless of whether or not you also strip for him. Learn the dance moves only if you want to learn them for yourself...not for someone else
2006-10-13 08:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most married men go to a strip club because they want to feel special and important. Usually they do not get this from their wives. If you want to keep your man. Make him feel special in his love language. Tell him you are behind him and stand by him and that he is sexy. and do not nag him to death (youlll drive him to drink or a strip club). thats all you gotta do. I wish women would understand that guys are really that simple.
oh and dont marry a guy who goes to strip clubs. he probably won't quit for you or anybody. same thing with pornography.
2006-10-13 08:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Armond B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you arent in a relationship yet and this is your biggest worry for the future? honey...it takes more to hold onto a relationship and a decent man than slipping and sliding and gyrating up and down a pole with a g-string 3/4ths the way up your crack.....besides...when the boobs sag and the wrinkles come then what? have more to offer to a man than a strip tease and you will get more in return than a few dollar bills shoved in your g-string
2006-10-13 08:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is such a retarded question. im sorry, but even if you learned how to strip there's no guaranttee that he won't go to strip clubs anyway, because those women are always going to be younger, hotter, and skankier than you. you just cant compete with that, its their JOB for f*ck's sake. don't worry about doing any of that sh*t. he should be trying to please YOU, not the other way around, because women are f*cking goddesses and men are just lying sacks of sh*t.
2006-10-13 08:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Justina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋