one of the men shes in love with shes been with for 11 yrs the other only 9 months but the 11 yr man doesnt seem to care about her anymore and the other one does . although care about him its not the same as it used to be to many lies on his behalf lies she knows about as a fact and to much private information the 11 yr old relationship guy tells to anyone who will listen including her own son
2006-10-13 08:37:43 · 12 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do 'em both. Good Luck!
2006-10-13 08:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that one would have a choice to make wouldnt it? I am of the mind that one cannot be in love wth 2 people at once. One can love many people but being in love is another thing entirely. If your feelings for 11 yr man are not the same then you should make a break from him. ( this means one of you must move) But be careful the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence.
2006-10-13 08:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say.. try to look at the things differently.
newbies are always like that.. people seem to care for newer person more but eventually its gonna fade. But one who has been living with you, for a long time knows you better. try to rememeber how he was, in his first 9 month with you....
so i would say.. if u just wanna try the new guy for a ride then.. i have nothing to say, but if u talk about love and understanding. the older guy has it all. u know it.
and if u're tired of that old guy then. its ok.
* i dont think anyone is perfect. whoever u meet and choose lacks manythings. so just be wise and have fun.
2006-10-13 08:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by coldfish85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is time to move on, then it is time. The 11 year show no respect than leave him and go for the 9 month guy.
2006-10-13 08:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3-some!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-13 08:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be independent and in control of our own life, then find a man who fits into that situation.
I think your 11 years guy has forgotten to respect you as an individual.
2006-10-13 08:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a sitcom, make some dinner and get a killer laugh track. Practice your cute face
2006-10-13 08:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose.
2006-10-13 08:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her go she is not Worth your life is she i mean not trying to give you any bad news or anything but hey just hang in there it will all work out
2006-10-13 08:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by julie_ismael_123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move out and get a new perspective.
2006-10-13 08:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋