My wife ran off with a man from Birmingham. She gives me no money to help bring up my son. Although I think he is going to be a nancy boy and I cant cope so feel like just giving him to my sister in law. Women can just do what they like and the law does not help. She wants a divorce and wants to take my house off me. Surely thats not fair. I bet she will win. She was a terrible mom and never did what I told her. I think she should pay me money to pay for her son but I will not get it cos the law does not help men. I would probably get more help if I was gay or an immigrent.
2006-10-13 08:37:26 · 13 answers · asked by Brett S 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Find a good lawyer and tell him your story. Have all your facts in order to present a valid picture to your attorney. Giving your child to someone else as your sister-in-law may be a wise thing to do if you are unable to cope with the possibility that he might not turn out like you would hope. He needs stability and to live in a home that would love and nourish him and help him grow into a happy human being, no matter what his preferences are even if that situation is for a temporary time, just until you feel better about yourself.
Men have been heard loud and clear for many years now. No longer should a woman expect to be given anything from dissolved marriage that she doesn't deserve. The legal system also provides free help, or at a sliding scale for those who cannot afford a lawyer.
2006-10-13 08:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by wilhelmenawiem 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Lots of interesting ideas here.
Your wife should have no chance of taking your house if you are the primary caregiver to your son. Find an attorney that can help you, if you're short of fund you might be able to get some free or cheap advice. Don't sign anything without having someone read it for you and tell you what it means.
Calling your son a nancy boy is not healthly for you or your son. You really should try to see your son as an individual and love him unconditionally. Also, remember, he LOST HIS MOTHER, I know you feel hurt by what she did. What she did is WRONG, but remember, your boy lost his mommy and is also hurting. You two have each other, try to bond with him. If you really can't be good with your son, then yes, you might want to consider giving him up to yous sister.
You're right, she should pay you money if you are taking care of the child that you both produced. She should pay child support to you. When you get the divorce, your lawyer should fight for this.
You can get help, get up and go look for it. Ask for it. Tell people you need help. I think you might find more help than you imagine.
Good luck.
2006-10-13 08:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by jfer 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Feminism is a fully funded government and legal proxy for generating big business under policy. To the legal system it is worth about a half trillion dollars, and that does not include the revenue that is generated for the state as a cost borne by the tax payers themselves. The penal system which has become very much a part of everyday life for the US citizen with one in four now either part of it or given a courtesy interaction and is one of the main drivers for additional revenue, policy, new laws and customers. Most people on an individual level just assume the facts generated out of feminism are correct. I have yet to find any that actually correspond to real life at all, it is all marxist theory. Sure we get bad boyz but twice as many under reported bad girlz, and in accordance with the new feminist teaching 8 out of 10 males are rapists, in fact having sex with females is rape. Especially as some of the more extreme questionable gendered females in leadership would have us believe, that would be true for them since having sex with a male for one of these females would be the equivalent of a very painful psychological experience. The problem however is that these minority views are now mainstream media views. It is so sad to see a country slowly turned downhill as a result of what is equivalent to Gloria Steinhams plagiarized view of Gramsci's long march through culture. Gloria tells us her policies will not be fulfilled for another 65 years !. In a perfect world feminism could work on an island somewhere in the south polar regions, but not unleashed as it is on the helpless general public unless we understand how much private wealth and rights are relieved from the general public as a result of it. Feminists with their DV policies are about to show us the new world order they work for, males should start to understand the nature of the sixth reich pretty quick.
2016-03-28 07:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont call your son a nancy boy, you say she was a bad mum, well your not sounding that good a dad so far..
dont give your son away, he has already had one parent leave him if you cared about him you shouldnt abandon him as well.
contact CSA or someone similar if your not in UK. she has to contribute towards your son.
the law does help men as much as it helps women, dont be so sexist.
get yourself a lawyer, end of day if you were married you might have to sell your house and slit the money but that is only fair.
and get yourself some councilling or something! you are clearly homophobic! "my son. Although I think he is going to be a nancy boy " "I would probably get more help if I was gay "
someones sexual preferences has no bearing on them as a person. dont be so narrow minded to discriminate against them because of it. ESP when your own son MIGHT be gay.l
GROW UP!
MJ
2006-10-13 13:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by mj_junkie86 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You know you need to speak to a good solicitor about this.
I am more concerned about your poor son. How old is he? It must be awful for him. You need to be a really strong man right now and admit you need help here. Your son needs you and it is very worrying reading some of the things you are saying. I think you are struggling and you dont know what to do for the best. There is no doubt that if your sons mum has left, then your son needs you like never before. Please think of where you would be comfortable to go to discuss your feelings and your needs further because you need some support and advice.
Your son deserves to see his dad make some sacrifices for him - he isnt likely to see his mum make those sacrifices at the moment is he? Give him faith in one of you.
2006-10-13 10:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear of your troubles.
The world is biased for women (in some areas)
and against women (in other areas)
When it comes to kids and motherhood, usually the courts side with the women.
However, if you can prove (with a lawyers help) that your wife was unfit, you can probably win some battles with the judge.
Good luck!
2006-10-13 08:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by powhound 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Firstly I would get a crane or some type of heavy lifting apparatus to get the house off of me,and also I dont understand Mom or Immigr-e-nt could you try to post your questions in English in future you sound like an American. So try to learn your MothER language.
2006-10-13 12:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by ukfool666 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So she never did what you told her? Terrible woman!
And your son looks like growing up a nancy boy, give him away then!
Blame the gays and immigrants - it's their fault, because they get everything and you get nothing.
With an open-minded free thinker like you at the head of the family, how did it all go wrong?
2006-10-13 09:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
yes to some degree the world is more biased towards the woman population.
2006-10-13 08:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by this isnt my name. 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
Just get a good lawyer, theres no reason why she should have it all.
2006-10-13 08:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by John S 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋