My girlfrind of 4 years asked me to move in with her and I really want to but she has 2 kids and I have none. I want to know If I should move in dispite that fact.
2006-10-13 08:16:05 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you crazy if you love her go for it she obviously likes yo enough to want you to move in with her but if you just don't feel comfortable with the fact she has kids then just tell her you're not ready.
P.S. and is she is you're BFF and not your GF then same thing minus the love part. lol
2006-10-13 08:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids are high maintenance. And sometimes there is a hidden expectation that you will be a free babysitter. Figure out all the rules and how much rent, bills, food Etc is. Think about dealing with kids, who have no boundaries. When they are ones own, they are tolerated. When they are someone elses, they can be a real pain.
Will you have your own room? That is important. You will need quiet and privacy.
2006-10-13 18:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should. Those kids will drive you nuts, let alone you guys will only confuse the poor kids. I feel bad for them already! What a mess you're in. Just move on. Why would you guys linger on to something that has no future in sight.
2006-10-13 15:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure, i would wait until you are sure. Do you get on with the children. Can you see yourself living with them and having a family. Chances are you probably spend alot of time in her place with the kids anyway. Ask your self could I do this all the time, would i be happy living here?
2006-10-13 15:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kid are easy, plan a vacation together, get the kid to have fun and like you. then go back to her place when coming back home. Have your girlfriend tell her kids that it is late and you are going to stay over. Then just plan some event on Friday night and just have a sleep over at her place. Do this enough time, they will think that you live there
2006-10-13 15:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My recommendation is dont do it... I did that and my BF daughter's was coming into my room stealing my stuff, wearing my stuff and it became a mess... I had no more peace and quiet... and she was constantly yelling and screaming at them for whatever reason...
2006-10-13 15:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you date for marriage and can see yourself marrying this woman later on, then it is going to happen sometime....if you know this is not "the girl" then don't do it. If not, then i say take the leap...
2006-10-13 15:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. If you want to be around the kids all the time, go for it. If you don't, kindly decline.
2006-10-13 15:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question..do you love her enough to see a future with her and the kids? if the answer is yes..then give it a try
2006-10-13 15:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-10-13 15:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋