Angry at myself?

Question

Sometiimes when you do so much to be tolerant with friends and helpful , they just dont get it. Why are some people so selfish? I always control myself not bother watever they do in return , I dont mind not being appreciated, i just feel like telling it off sometimes. I am keepig quiet because if i start behaving like that it wont make any difference betweem them and me. How do you some of you actually deal with this situation.
You are helpful tolerant of things that they do which disturbs you Especially when you are living with these friends. You do say in a very nice way and they dont listen and it comes to control for a few days and back to square one again.....

I cant move out anywhere else since i am bound to apartment contract. I decided just to continue till the contract finish in 6 more months.
I just get anry at myself for being like this sometimes.
What will you guys do?

spelling mistake for the :
anry = angry

Answer 1

That is your house to and they should respect your rules! If you abide by theirs you should expect the same in return. If I were you I would let them know that they can Be replaced by another renter in the need be. Explain to them that because they are your friends that is why you tolerate so much but you just can't do it any more! Do not allow anyone to drive you out of your home because of what they do! Put your foot down and use the voice you have been given.

Answer 2

well some people r like a tail of dog no matter how many years u place it in a pipe or somthing straight it will always shapes in curves

Answer 3

You need to accept them as they are and know that it will be over soon as you said. Don't worry just breathe and if you need to talk feel free to email me. I am in the same position somewhat. reapeat to yourself IT IS WHAT IT IS and nothing more.
cheers darlin

Answer 4

okay thanks for 2 points srry way to long