2006-10-13 08:14:19 · 18 answers · asked by Sob Sob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well i confronted him and he confess. He said he really went out with his buddies and the plan was cancelled. Thus he wanted to watch the movie and doesn't want me to cancel my plan with friends. Last min he called his ex to join him.
2006-10-13 16:53:53 · update #1
We actually plan to settle down. And he said no way he is going back with her. Now they're just good friends
2006-10-14 00:46:09 · update #2
you are lucky that you have not totally commit to this relationship.
else, he might be hoping both of you commit more to the relationship but his meeting his ex is not a good sign.
how old are you? if you are still in the early twenties, it is time to think over for the future of settling down in marriage.
if he is still not ready to settle down in marriage in the next few years, he might be open to more options and that is why he is hesitating. else, he might be hoping for more commitment from both of you and him but since he confessed he met his ex for a movie, give him and yourself another chance.
but be it together or apart from a relationship, you must learn to start over anew again if the relationship does not work in the near future. but once you commit to marriage, it is a life-long learning and re-learning that you have to commit for the future of your family, him, you and your future child or children.
good luck!
mercury of love
2006-10-13 23:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seen like the earth got no more man. Because your BF's sort of behaviour cannot be tolerated and excused. Thus, you better leave or dump him for another man. After all, just BF and not husband. Not necessary to get a genuine answer whether he is still in contact with his ex. Just forget it.
2006-10-13 17:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no...this isn't good. Now lies have been introduced to the relationship, and once the trust has been broken, you cannot believe anything at all. I'm sure he will tell you it was innocent and he was afraid you'd overreact, and he'll tell you that "nothing happened". How about this -- cut him off cold. No explanations, no nothing. Let him wonder. Snakes like this don't deserve the courtesy of an explanation. Trust me on this one.
2006-10-13 08:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel if he has done this that he should be man enough to tell you. And if he is your boy friend I would seriously think about getting out of the relationship, if he has done it once its most likely he will do it again.. Best of luck on this... Talia
2006-10-13 08:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Talia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not of your business... dont get involved in his love problems, when it comes to that it only takes 2..just be a friend and give an advise when needed.
2006-10-13 08:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should he tell what? That he snuck around with his ex? Why would he want to? Of course he should be honest but thats not going to happen,because sneaking around with her wasnt very honest to begin with.
2006-10-13 08:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by ineedsumlovin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother telling him cramp, he didn't bother to tell you that he was going out with his ex did he? just dump him, and get a new honest man. good luck
2006-10-13 08:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know? And why is he still your boyfriend? Kick him to the curg. I am sure there is another man out there for you.
2006-10-13 11:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't come forward about it, and you know for sure that he did that, confront him and then end it. Make it clear that it was unacceptable.
2006-10-13 08:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if he tell u what will u think in your mind.Will acc it?ls better 4 him to keep silent.
2006-10-14 02:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋