My brother-in-law's wife is a loud, ignorant, spoiled 23 year old and I am having a hard time being supportive of thier relationship. I know I am no one to pass judgement, but the whole family agrees that she is not the one right for him. And he complains about her all the time. Am I to stay quiet and be supportive, or do I need to talk to him seriously, have an intervention, what?
2006-10-13 08:14:00 · 6 answers · asked by nhein21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't even go there.....be there to listen to him, but just be supportive. If you say anything in a negative way....somehow it could come back and bite you.
2006-10-13 08:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by WhatNext 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the strategy - be polite to her and she may see her evil ways. Listen to what she talks about and then find a topic or activity that interests her and become familiar with it. Then u can do/talk about it together and bond a little. u will feel so good if it works out!
2006-10-13 08:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you're talking about! My boyfriends family hates the girl his brother is dating. Shes a SLUT shes disrespectful, she flirts with every guy in their family- their cousins, uncles, brothers, in-laws any man that walks! She takes all of his brothers money and stays out all night and goes clubbin and to all these bars and is too wasted to hang out w/ him the next day. She has all guy friends and all of them have seen her naked & f*cked her.. and on top of it all.. she cheats on her bf!!! We all hate her and he knows it but he says he's in love.. we're all scared he's gonna propose and we're gonna be stuck w/her. Shes a manipulative little b*tch.. i think that you should seriously talk to him and tell him if he persists w/ this relationship to not bother speaking to you anymore.. if you feel that strongly on it.
2006-10-13 08:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Susana M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and let him take it from there. if he is really that unhappy then he needs to leave her and find someone who is better suited to him . If he never does this then i think maybe you need to leave it alone and stay out of it.
2006-10-13 08:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice I can give you is to mind your own business unless he comes to you and wants to talk about it then be honest
2006-10-13 08:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get involved. At the end of the day, its his relationship.
he can make his own mistakes.
2006-10-13 08:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋