Why must couples hate each other, even after they've spent a lot of good times together? Is it really neccessary to be so bitter when one leaves the relationship?
Can they not just accept that it didn't work and move on with their lives?
2006-10-13 08:11:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes people really "fall out of love" with their partners, my wife did together 15yrs. Married 9. I'm in know way shape or form bitter, I wanted and tried to make our marriage work. I gave it to God and it's out of my hands now, she is and always will be my best friend. Base on all the great memories I have of us, it is what it is. Life goes on, just have to learn to sit back and enjoy the ride.
2006-10-13 08:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear wannaknow:
Most couple spend a lifetime together yes but they are not inlove with eachother! Their relationship is one of a comproise and most of they stood in that relationship because of the kids , because they feel guilty and they wanna do the right thing for everyone. So when they get a chance to part they are so happy that they moved on and at the same time they are angry that they put with their partner crap for so may years.
So the answer is this love is bitter, sweet and jealous and it doesnot matter the amount of time spent, love cannot be measured!
Couples fall outta love after a few years but learn to live with eachother becoz of committments, its not really love!
Love SANAM
2006-10-13 15:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, people fall out of love. It's hard not to hate each other. You've invested so much in a marriage and the other person has disappointed you. Now, you see your dream falling apart! Hopefully, if it must end, both can eventually move on.
2006-10-13 15:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by pearl101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has a lot to do with shifting the whole blame on the other, and broken dreams and the feeling of failure...
put together they are a good recipe for bitterness
2006-10-13 16:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by webby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not always "bitter", many times people simply mutually agree to separate.
2006-10-13 15:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bitterness is there only if one of them feels they've been wronged.
Just what was the reason for the breakup and by whom?
2006-10-13 15:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never been married but have a couple of x boyfriends... we remained good friends, if it didnt work out its because it wasnt meant to be,.
2006-10-13 15:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
people argue and fight in relationships there are times they dont like each other but with true love there is always a glue that holds them together.
2006-10-13 15:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife fell out of love with me for another man
2006-10-13 15:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do. Sometimes from a lack of BJs.
2006-10-13 15:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋