Man my boyfriend of 9 months just broke up w/ me because he says he cant trust me..because of something my bestfriend told him or wat not..and i dont know what to do i love him so much but it seems like he aint tryna hear it at all...I dont know wether to persue him not..SHould I just let him go and since he says he loves me so much wait for him to come back or just Get on w/ life although thats something that i dont wanna do...
2006-10-13 08:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
If he could break up with you for something he "heard" from someone, (depending on what he heard and if its true"), then He does not deserve you. Sounds to me like he was looking for an out and grabbed the first one handed to him.
You need to move on, that is the best revenge, they hate to think you are fine and happy without them.
It's hard, "I know", but once he sees your doing fine with out him, he will more than likely come crawling back, if in fact he truly truly loved you.
Good Luck.
2006-10-13 08:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder why he took something that a supposed friend said as fact?
However he, I am sure is human and fallable like the rest of us.
So, giving him the benefit of a doubt, write him a letter (phone calls are too much of a chance for arguement), tell him how you feel clearly, (don't make accusations or say anything about him or his character, just write what YOU feel), ask him why he beleived this person over you. Let him know you still care!!
Meanwhile, keep living your life, be the person you have always been, do things with your friends and focus on the things that have always been a part of you. If he still cares for you he will want to see that you are happy and haven't gotten so wrapped up in him that you aren't the person he fell in love with anymore. Also, re-evaluate some of your friend ships, you make find that some people that make the best friends aren't the ones that seem the most outgoing and friendly at the first glance, but in the long run they are usually most loyal.
2006-10-13 08:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by mysacryfice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might be wrong but if this friend told him something to get him to break up with you then it sounds like to me that this friend wants to steal your man and if your man believed her with out talking to you then it sounds to me like he is blaming you for something that he has done himself and is trying to make himslef feel better by making you feel bad, this happens all of the time, it's hard to explain in writing but, I think that maybe what ever your friend said that you did your boyfriend has done for real and doesn't know how to talk to you about it, okay never mind I am not going to try and explain what I mean, Best of Luck, move on if he doesn't come back.
2006-10-13 08:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by randyssgirl25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being with you for 9 months, and saying he loves you, why would he believe lies about you? Maybe he is not worth waiting for.
And, why would your "best" friend do you like that??? Maybe there is something going on between the two of them??
Get on with your life and leave those two behind.
2006-10-13 08:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Florida Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you he will come back to you. Test him out and go on with life with out calling and bugging him. If he does love you he will realize he made the biggest mistake of his life and come back to you. Dont let him see that he hurt you. Good Luck and be strong.
2006-10-13 08:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tinkerbelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would not listen to your side, he just took you best friends word??? What a best friend! What a boy friend!! I would try to talk to him, get him to listen to your side of what ever your friend told him. If he still will not talk or listen to you, dump him. If he takes what someone else said without talking to you, dump him. If anyone could tell him something about you,and he believes it, you know what to do. He is playing you. Dump him!
2006-10-13 08:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing with my boyfriend 4 basically 4 years my advice is to write him a letter and tell him how you feel and if he don't respond just try to ignore him and act like your really happy and hell come running after you sooner or later its really hard but it works at least it did 4 me
2006-10-13 08:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Chassidy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of your friend becuase a friend that is a friend doesnt do that.. and get rid of your boyfriend, a true boyfriend would've come to you first before breaking up with you.
2006-10-13 08:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, get him back. let your friend know to stop running her mouth. let your boyfriend know you love him and would do anything for him. tell him it was all a lie and you can trust him. tell him you will work to earn back his trust and you would never do anything to hurt him. let him know how you feel and hold on if you really l ove him.
2006-10-13 08:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him directly dat u wanna get back together wid him if he says yes then have him if he says no then move on, find another guy
2006-10-13 08:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by Preeya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋