my bf has been acting really weird lately. i have had a suprise for him for about a week and i put so much thought into it. when i finally tried to give it to him he refused to go in the basement. that is the best place for my to give him his suprise because its nice and finished down there. NO ITS NOT SEX! we were on a break for 2 weeks then got back together and have been together for about a month. we will be 3 YEARS in December. i accepted the fact that he didnt want the suprise yesterday so i tried cuddling with him instead but he said he was tired and he didnt show any affection towards me which is awkward for him.
the bad thing is that his sisters wedding is tomorrow! and all we've been doing since last night was arguing. HELP! why is he pushing me away like this
2006-10-13 08:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i noticed he leaves girls comments that he has met at the college..but never responds to mine..he says "hey hows it going?" to them in that time he could have said "i love you sweetie" but doesnt!
2006-10-13 08:04:34 · update #1
i've been to FOUR weddings in his family and he isn't even in this wedding this time!
2006-10-13 08:13:19 · update #2
sounds like he has something major going on- and is sisters wedding bothering him??? No telling what is going on-so are you invited to go to the wedding w him?? You sound very young- does he think his sisters wedding is putting wedding ideas in your head??? maybe he is afraid of that and is not quite ready- no telling- chill and find out whats up after the wedding- sounds like he will feel more guilty for accepting a gift-
2006-10-13 08:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 19:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if he has another agenda, on his mind. Put him on the spot, and ask him what is going on, that his mind seems to be somewhere, And that you will like for him to express himself. Do not argue, with him, learn to talk in a calm manner. I just think he may want some space, and is not for a committed relationship. However it goes, it is better to know now, then not to know. I hope all goes well for you!
2006-10-13 08:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he needs some space. Let him enjoy the wedding without you. He'll call you when he's ready.
2006-10-13 08:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in the wedding go to it, if you are not, let him have is time with his family, it's sounds like to me he needs space...
2006-10-13 08:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happened to you now ????
2006-10-13 08:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋