My daughter wants to but i kno it will grow back quicker but because she is getting older she is wanting 2 wear skirts but is embaressed About her fuzz..
I can remember what it is like to be her age and i know how she feels..
I hate being the big bad mum but i just know shes gonna thank me one day... HELP!
2006-10-13 07:33:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
SHE WILL NOT THANK YOU! NEVER!
This issue has been addressed time and again. SHE WILL NEVER THANK YOU for feeling embarrassed or being teased/bullied about her body hair. The appropriate age for a girl to start removing unwanted hair is when she realizes it is unwanted. Body hair (in this day and age) is a big enough deal that she could be rejected by her friends if people point out she has unwanted hair.
Furthermore, SHAVING DOES NOT MAKE HAIR GROW BACK FASTER. This is a scientific fact. Shaving makes hair grow back with a BLUNT END that feels less smooth than a naturally tapered end, but shaving DOES NOT IN ANY WAY affect the growth rate of hair.
The MINUTE your daughter feels uncomfortable about this you should take her to the store and buy her a razor, blades and shaving gel. Teach her how to shave her legs properly. Don't wait until the emotional damage from teasing and bullying has already been done. The fact that she's even mentioned the issue is a good indicator that she may be getting hassled about the subject (don't embarass her even more by talking about this).
2006-10-13 09:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually science proves that Hair doesn't actually grow back thicker. This is a common myth, shaved hair only appears to grow back thicker and darker because it doesn't have the fine pointed tip that new hair would. The stubble just makes it appear thicker until the hair grows out.
An ae for shaving really depends on her and on you. Girls are ready younger as girls continue to go through puberty at younger and younger ages. If her hair is dark and visable and embarassing then it's no big deal to go ahead and let her start shaving. Get a couple razors and the two of you have a shaving party in the bathrrom. You'll be surprised how much this will help her open up to you.
2006-10-13 07:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by JD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This idea that the hair will grow more quickly is a myth. If that worked, bald guys would be shaving their heads all the time!
As for the "right age", I would have to say that, if your daughter is starting to wear skirts and feels uncomfortable w/how much hair she has, it's time to shave. My youngest sister had a lot of hair and our mom shaved it off occasionally, beginning around age 8 (like for birthdays and church holidays...when she was wearing a skirt).
Why put a limit on it if she feels self-conscious? You might get her an electric razor, so she can do it more easily and won't tie up the bathroom!
2006-10-13 07:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The quicker/thicker hair thing is a myth - but if she's gonna start, I'd suggest an epilator. I've never razored my legs, and started 18 years ago when I was 15. The hair's just about given up growing back and I do my legs once a month on the patches that are like baby hair. All my friends moan about razoring and I barely need to take notice! Be a great mum and let her know - she'll Really appreciate it in a few years (thanks to my Mum)
Oh, first time hurts like hell!
2006-10-13 08:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one area that I can say still bothers me after 40 years. I am 50 years old, and I have think, dark hair on my legs. I was 11 years old when I wanted to shave, and my mother wouldn't let me.
I remember how embarrassed I became when I wore a skirt or dress (we couldn't wear pants to school back then)
Don't put it off, if she needs to shave, and it will make her feel more comfortable, then let her. She will thank you that you understood how she feels, and it will make her feel like she is growing up.
You are not a bad mum, you sound like you want to do the right thing. So don't let it be an issue between you two. If she's embarrassed by it, then she's old enough to shave.
I would actually turn it into a "wow, you're growing up" thing, and let her feel special. Tell her how proud you are of her, and how she is starting to take care of herself, etc.
good luck
2006-10-13 08:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a question about age, it's about how much hair she has and how fast it is growing. If it is bothering her and is affecting her self esteem, let her shave, but only up to her thigh. She doesn't need to shave any higher. You need to teach her about shaving, so she knows how to be safe around the razors. Be brave and take charge like a mom should. You know the right answers, just do it. Good Luck
2006-10-14 13:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old is she? i started shaving when i was 12 just cuz i wanted to lol!! but i dont find the hairs grow back any quicker, are thicker or darker...on my legs and armpits...i'm not talking about "down there"... lol and i know thats not what you were asking about either, because u stated "she wants to wear skirts", so i didnt think u mean she wanted to shave "down there!!!" hope this help you!!
2006-10-13 07:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let her. So what if it grows back quicker....then she's going to have to keep on top of it right? I was 12 from what I can remember...and all I wish was that my mum had shown me how not to cut myself and how not to give myself that painful scrape rash. You won't be the big bad mum if you show her how properly.
2006-10-13 07:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 10 old enought to know to be careful with a razor. If she is aware of the fuzz let her shave.
2006-10-13 09:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by ellc123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋