i love this guy a lot and i keep thinking abt him.i told him earlier tht i like him but he does not like me so he made an excuse tht he has a gf and if still i wanted to be his gf i could become,, to which i refused.after my refusal we stoped talking to each other as he was not ready to remain frnds with me.but still when i come i know about any of the talks regardng him,he keeps on coming back in my mind.he has done many things for which i hate him alot nd every1 has told me tht he s not the rite guy for me but i m still crazy about him...wat should i do????
2006-10-13 07:12:21 · 9 answers · asked by rebecca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hav already tried to date another guy but it is not working out..i still want him to be in my life
2006-10-13 07:20:49 · update #1
if the guy has hurt you in any way in the past i dont think he deserves to be with you. just think of it in this way that he was a bad memory that has its after effects. honestly i dont think that you are ready to date yet. hang out with your girl friends and enjoy life. dont be stuck up upon such losers who would cheat!if you are really gud at heart god has made someone else for you. you are thinking in termms of the present but ever hav you thought about your future.according to me you are on the right track.it hurts at first and is difficult but time is a big healer. request your friends not to bring him up.whenever you hear his name just think of something else.honestly get yourself involved in some activity and live.life is too short to regret or wait for some loser who doesnt care bout you.life is too celebrate.dont let some silly infatuation spoil this celebration!!
2006-10-13 07:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
“I love this guy a lot…” And then, “he has done many things for which I hate him a lot.” Come on Honey, make up your mind He has a girl friend and has rejected your advances so why are you forcing the issue…I am sure you would not like it if another girl tried to steal your boy friend. Why can’t you accept “NO” as an answer? You are being very selfish…thinking only about what you want. My advice is first and foremost swallow your pride. Lay of dating etc. till you get him out of your system. By and by the right guy will come, till then keep smiling.
2006-10-13 08:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to forget him and gradually you will if you get interested in some other person. Because in long term when something even a bit might go wrong the first thing that will come up to your mind is the comparision of him with his ex -girl firend and your mind will always pinch you somewhere about it making the relation more worse. Today it might hurt you for a while but you'll take the right decission by getting into with someone for whom you are the world.Once you are someone's world he'll automatically become your best world.best luck dear friend and God bless you
2006-10-13 13:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by kirtik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes opposites attract and no matter what others say....u will like this guy even though he has hurt u alot....
I can understand that u r seriously crazy over this guy but remember like u said, you have told him how u feel and he doesn't feel the same.
So, is it possible for u to have a break from all this and do something different.....
Go away for a short while, go and meet family or friends.
Sometimes a distance from the guy can help them understand their feelings. They become aware of what they are missing and u never know....he may miss u and then want to be with u....only time can tell.
Good luck!
2006-10-13 07:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your interior the eighth grade meaning the boys you're chatting with are in simple terms now hitting that super area of existence puberty. on the only hand the boy who hugs all of the females and jokes around is attempting to length up the lady hes going to clutter with. hug her see how she hugs you. he,s fascinated... in anybody absolutely everyone. on the different hand the shy guy (who's your greater effectual guess) is going interior the direction of the comparable ingredient yet is going approximately it a distinctive way. standoffish because of the fact hes insecure or worried. heres the appropriate answer even nevertheless you wont like it. it quite doesnt count reason your gonna smash up with them in some months besides. at your age relationships are surprisingly plenty attempt drives for once you mature. date the only your much less acquaintances with, so whilst it ends you wont lose a chum. the different one will nevertheless be there
2016-11-28 03:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself checked up by some psychiatrist. Its all your fault. You dont like him. You check with people about him and these very people get unknown pleasure in feeding you totally wrong impression about your bf.If he is that bad and famous at the wrong end drop him. Never mind if no other guy picks you up.Its a huge male world out there. Broaden your search and bingo you could land up in the arms of some most unlikely person and live happilly thereafter.No personal offense meant.
2006-10-13 17:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by chemburbroker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,frist to like some one is agreat thing and love him is the most beutiful thing in the word marrage is the greatest thing becaues it prove the real love but every one have his match who will match him doesnt matter how he looks like or near to your caracter but he will be happy with you and you are happy with him but that if he care and he trite you well but if he doent dont even think about him caues he will always treat you like that even after marrage so my question to you are you going to be a slave all your life or you search harder to find your mach my sugestion is search more there are may good guys care
2006-10-13 07:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by lover boy 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a glutton for heart ache aren't you? Or is it just a bod boy thing? Or is it that you want what you can't have? In any case, your setting yourself up for being let down.
2006-10-13 07:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to date someone else and see if it works.
2006-10-13 07:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by kourtnyi r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋