I have this problem,there is this boy in my class room and i havnt known him that long,but anyway hes startin to like me and i dont feel the same way about him,i just want to be friends,cause i only get the friend vibe from him,i guess its cause im too nice and i dont like hurting people,so what would be a good way to do about this? please help.Thank you.
2006-10-13 07:06:14 · 7 answers · asked by blastxgirl1820 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No wonder he likes you! That you're concerned about his feelings even though you don't feel the same way shows you are a wonderful person.
Sometimes, the only way to avoid hurting someone you care about is to tell them the truth even though it might hurt them to hear it. So if he has told you he likes you as more than a friend and you value his friendship, honesty is the only way to go. You can tell him you don't feel the same way but you value his friendship. He will be hurt that you don't return his affection, but eventually he will be OK and you guys can go on being good friends.
If he has not told you how he feels and you feel this is a serious enough issue, you can directly ask him in private if he has feelings for you. If he says he does, then you can tell him you like him as a friend.
The important thing is honesty.
Good luck!
2006-10-13 07:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him know that you just want to be friends and not in a relationship, if you don't let him know that then his feeling could go stronger and then if you wait to late to tell him it is just a friend thing between you and him, his feelings will be hurt. I suggest you let him know up front where you stand at with him. At least he will know.
2006-10-13 14:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest tell him you just want to be friends
2006-10-13 14:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is only one way to do this, just tell him. (Tell him straght up. NICELY). And if his feeling get hurt, he'll get over it sooner later.
2006-10-13 14:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tia J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that lil boy whats up, dont be afraid speak your mind
2006-10-13 14:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by chuckleburry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight up honest with him....
2006-10-13 14:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel.
2006-10-13 14:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by *~*Christel*~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋