See him and her told me that it was a sex thing with them but they just ended up with a baby! He stayed the night ova there with his baby and i got jealous because i thought he was with the babymama. I dont have a problem with the baby, I just dont know what goes on between them behind closed doors. I have fallen in love with him. he is 19 and i am 17 years old. He is very handsome and i like his personality. He says that he loves me and he is not worried about her. I love him too. I want to be his down chick but i also dont want to be a dumb chick. Tell me whats up what do u think from a males and females point of view.
2006-10-13 07:03:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetheart, he was NOT spending the night with the BABY, okay? Three week old babies SLEEP like 22 hours a day. So ALL he could do is HOLD him while he sleeps, and WATCH him while he sleeps.....and he was NOT there doing that. He was catching up on old times, and probably giving her a little loving before that six week check up.
I speak from experience because I had my first son at a young age. My and his father broke up, and he went on with a new chick. She hated me, and was jealous of the baby and I. She had GOOD reason to be. He would shut her up by telling her that he had the right to see and be around his baby, but usually the first thirty minutes was about the baby. The rest of the time we were seeing how many ways we could make each other scream if you know what I mean.
If it was about the baby, he could keep the baby at his house. If the girl IS willing......THAT is a relationship with the baby. If she WON'T let him.....then she still wants him. And if he is running game all like, "I spent the night with my three week old baby." That was some REAL BS. No way in hell. Don't be dumb, be smarter than he takes you for.
You just go and do you. Deal with him when you want to, on YOUR terms, and make sure to have other friends to deal with. THAT will determine how serious he is about you and whether or not you mean anything. If he stops all foolishness to pursue you and get you back in his life and dumps all the silliness......then take it slow and still be cautious. If he moves on and never skips a beat.....you were his little fling and not serious relationship at all.
I know what I'm talking about. I've been there, and done that, and I have GAME GALORE. TRUST. He is playing. And it's OLD game too!!!!! *sigh* I should write a book!
2006-10-13 07:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think at one time he told her he loved her too, with that producing an offspring. So make sure you want to share him with someone other than his child, because I can't believe he's not interested, with staying overnite and all. Sometimes our heart leads us in the wrong direction. Suppose you were the one with the 3 weeks old baby? Think!!
2006-10-13 07:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's always going to be in his life so you have to either trust them together or not. If you don't then you're better off moving on. He isn't going to leave his baby and that life for his new GF. Not to be harsh, but that is the reality of things...so good luck. Personally, I would move on.
2006-10-13 07:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truthfully can i say i see what your predicament is. I co very own a house toddler care. sure on occasion babies do cry whilst mom or dad leaves and than stops. whether ninety 9.9% of the youngsters look to resign whilst they get to renowned us. So now i wounder why your son nonetheless cried after see you later. extremely her 2d interest could desire to be going on whilst the youngsters at the instant are not cutting-edge. i'm licned with the state and we in basic terms grew to alter into natinaolly acreident. i'm able to permit you comprehend she does look too busy with different issues. me and my co provider have 12 young ones (often not all on the comparable time) we verify that they do get some one on one att and we are extra of like a kin. i comprehend its difficult on you.. As a mom you prefer not something however the suited to your son. i think of you ought to permit him stay homestead together with his aunt and spot the way it is going. in case you decied to return to daycare..get a clean toddler care provider.
2016-10-16 04:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wake up because you are being played. He isn't worth it, but he knows that you will always be there waiting in second position....wait, THIRD position * #1 his baby #2 the mama # 3 YOU*......
2006-10-13 07:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋