Bit of a long story.. my hubby was talking to a mate who said he ought to try Viagra. My husband decided he would. He bought some tablets even though I thought it was stupid because he has never had a problem. I noticed they were going down fast so I asked him if he was selling them, he said no. I left it at that. He asked me one night if I would like to try Viagra and I said no way and that they were made for heart patients and one of the side effects was a lasting erection. I said they wouldn't do anything for me anyway because they are made for men. He then told me that they would and have. When I asked what he meant he said he had put a ground up viagra in my drink on three occasions! I went balistic at him and said he could have killed me! I also said....sorry to burst your bubble but its never been great! I am mad as hell at him and considering divorce because if he is capable of that, what is next? What do you think I should do? Should I get checked out by a doctor?
2006-10-13 06:03:22 · 15 answers · asked by makehaysunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I forgot to say, I had migraines, really bad ones and I told him about them. He must have known but still didn't come clean. How could he take my rights away like that? If a stranger had done this to me, he would have been arrested and possibly found himself in court don't you think?
2006-10-13 06:34:41 · update #1
i thnk you should tell your doctor about what happened and see what he says . and you have every right to be mad and i would leave what else have you been a ginnie pig for with this man that is risking your life and thats not a joke . im sorry that happened to you i hope you give him what he deserves
2006-10-13 06:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi i can understand why you are angry, i think you are overeating a little and a divorce may not be the answer. How do you know he wasnt joking. But i dont know your husband. It was stupid of him and i dont think they cause any side effects as i dont think he give you 3 at once. Men probabley take them every night and they have no effect. My fiancee took on once that his mate give him and he got a migraine and his erection wouldnt go down. At least it wasnt anything more serious. But in future watch your drink and never leave your drink alon as you should know this anyway. If it would make you feel better go get your self checked out and also book an appointment to get a councellor for your hubby. Oh why dont you get revenge and get some hormone pills and put them in his drink and watch him become more feminie. Revenge is sweet. But then it would make you as bad as him so maybe not. Maybe tell him to get rid of this friend
2006-10-13 08:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would go get checked out. Men tend to do some stupid things at times, I suppose we are all guily of that at some time in our life. However if you truly love this man, I wouldnt go to the extreme of getting a divorce. I think the two of you have to sit down and talk. He needs to become aware of how serious this is.
You are right he couldnt caused some serious damage to you or worse killed you. You have to do some soul searching and perhaps some counceling, but if you truly value your marriage, your issues can be worked out. Good luck and I hope no damage to your health has been done.
2006-10-13 06:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's low, and I mean real low. You should definately kick his *** or something. I'm not aware of any serious conditions that can arise from occasional use of a drug such as viagra but only a qualified doctor could say for sure, if you'r worried then go see the doc, put your mind at ease
2006-10-13 06:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by wild boar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a relatively serious problem. You live with someone who obviously does not respect you or your body - that's a bad thing. I'd be cautious, leary, and seek professional help at the earliest opportunity. If you do not wish to save the marriage, then I'd place distance between you and hubby.
2006-10-13 06:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well id be wondering if that was an excuse that he made for all the missing pills that he has been using. probaly for someone else, viagra is addictive, and some men take them one after one so they can keep that erection, id be checking for another women. and if by any chance he did put it in your drink, go to the doc because those migraines may need to be checked. go to the doctor either way and get a full check up.
2006-10-13 07:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by nicky l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very pushy, irresponsible, and a bit of a loose cannon. I don't know about an instant divorce, but you certainly need to take a good long hard look at this relationship to see if it is what you thought it was and if it is how you want to go on living!
2006-10-13 06:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was wrong for spiking your drink and yes you have every right to be mad at him, but Viagra works on both men and women, if you need to see a doctor then do so, but in future make your own drinks....kick his *** too...he is irresponsible and ignorant...
2006-10-13 06:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be angry also! What he did was illegal, not to mention stupid! If you are not having any problems with your health I wouldn't make an extra appointment but I would mention it at the next normal visit.
I would probibly also consider divorce...but I can't imagine my husband being that ignorant!
2006-10-13 06:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by paganmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you're no worse for the wear but that dipsh*t should be drawn and quartered for slipping a prescription medication into your drink and not taking any side effects into account.
If you don't dump him then lady....your the dipsh*t and even worse than he.
2006-10-13 06:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋