I am Virgo, My Lover is Scorpio
Is it true that we learn the most from those we love? If so, your Scorpio lover has much to teach you. The Virgo/Scorpio combination can be mystical. If you have known and loved different Scorpios, each one will be unique and have a different spiritual gift for you.
Ruled by Pluto, your lover won't allow you to analyze him or her too thoroughly, for as soon as you do, he or she will change and surprise you. You can never really know a Scorpio; their feelings run deep underground to the very roots of their souls, and it would take a lifetime to figure Scorpios out. Do you know what makes them so supremely sexy? Confidence -- Scorpios have it in spades. Not prone to being egotistical, they have a very good grasp on their strengths and limitations, as you do. They work well within parameters, with incredible efficiency, intensity and focus. In other words, they use what they have to the max.
Scorpios show very few of their feelings on the surface. Still waters run so deep (Scorpio is a water sign), you may never know the full extent of your Scorpio's love for you. Scorpios are possessive, which may initially annoy you (Virgos need time to analyze a relationship and don't like to be rushed). But when you finally do commit, you will experience Scorpio's intense compassion, generosity, loyalty and fidelity.
Signs that are two signs away from one another in the zodiac form an opportunity aspect with each other's Sun signs -- indicating just how good a Scorpio can be for you! You are a worrier, but a Scorpio has such strength and power that you will be calmed by your lover's presence. Scorpios aren't reckless; they plan for the future and know where they're going -- very appealing qualities to you. Moreover, Scorpios like to save money, and when they do spend, their purchases are well thought out. You don't have extravagant needs either, and a big nest egg makes you feel secure.
Your Scorpio escapes the world sometimes, and so do you. Nothing helps either one of you feel new again better than a change of environment, so traveling to a place near water or the mountains could be especially good for you two. The old saw, "a change is as good as a rest" must have been said by a Virgo because Virgos feel better after any trip, even business trips. Virgos are nothing if not self-sufficient, and your lover will pay you enormous respect for that quality.
Sex is particularly wonderful with a Scorpio. The 8th house, which rules material gifts, is under the natural rulership of Scorpio. Thus, Scorpios understand the potential for gift-giving's transformation power in a way no other sign can. Scorpios have enormous spiritual depth because they are a sensitive, emotional water sign. As an earth sign, you often hesitate on the emotional shore, afraid to dive into the dark and bottomless sea of passion -- yet this lover should be able to explore the very depths of the ocean of love. Unlike other solely spiritual signs, Scorpios are lusty and erotic, and expect here-and-now physical passion, too. Scorpios understand that great lovemaking is both a ritual of holy purity and wanton abandon in the heat of love. Your Scorpio will raise your expectations of pleasure and bring you to a level of passion you never thought possible. As a water sign, Scorpio will stir your heart and bring out untouched and undiscovered emotions in you.
Don't be too literal, too inquisitive, or too determined to get to the bottom of your lover's psyche. Scorpios need mystery and privacy and, oddly enough, you do too (although you may never have considered it before). Don't misread Scorpio's silences or let them bring you down. Offer your Scorpio your trust, and he or she will give you unimagined delights in return, with all the stability, fidelity, and security you also crave. This lover was meant for you.
I am Virgo, My Lover is Capricorn
Capricorn is a superb lover for you, dear Virgo! Capricorn is an earth sign like yours, so you relate on an intuitive level because so many of your values are the same -- such as in your career goals. Capricorn rules the natural 10th house of the horoscope. The Goat is focused on climbing the ladder of success, and it is a rare Capricorn that doesn't reach the top of his or her profession. As a Virgo, you're a hard worker too, measuring your productivity level at the end of every day. Your sign has been called the sign of discrimination (you're known to be the universal critic) but the one you are hardest on is always yourself. Try not to let work overpower all the other areas of your life with Capricorn. You both are so duty-bound that you could forget your need for lighthearted fun (including time in the bedroom) because overwork could put a damper on your union.
You agree on many things, such as how to spend and save money; a nest egg is very important to both of you. Social approval is also important -- neither of you wants to get kicked out of the country club nor the bowling league. Rather, you both want to find acceptance in the best possible circles so you can meet interesting, successful people and be inspired by them. This is particularly true of your lover; Capricorn works hard at networking with influential people.
Neither of you would let the other down -- nor anyone else, for that matter -- and the one thing that gets you crazy is when someone is irresponsible. Life is busy, and when you cannot count on someone following through on a promise or a responsibility, it shatters your trust in that person. Virgos and Capricorns need to take people at face value. You both believe this so, happily, there will be no problem on this score. You both are practical, solid citizens with good common sense -- something you have found isn't so common anymore!
Your lover is ruled by Saturn, and therefore is not very emotional on the outside. Still, because you are Mercury's child, you see beneath Capricorn's cover and understand his or her feelings clearly. Virgos always have clear, bright eyes that see through the veils of things like pride, shyness, or lack of confidence. Your lover will be deeply grateful for your understanding and your compassion. Your union will be a rich and mature one, based on mutual caring and a shared vision of the future. Being earth signs, you both will be willing to dig down to the buried treasures that lie within each other. You both also have serious outlooks on life, but your life together will not be boring or routine, because your goals are lofty and inspired.
In bed, because Capricorn has established such trust in you, you will be free to express your deepest feelings. Be reassured: You will not be criticized or ridiculed. While other lovers may have found one of you too reserved or shy, you have none of these problems with one another. Both of you like to proceed slowly in the physical arena, so neither of you is likely to hop into bed impetuously -- certainly not until you know one another well. That careful, slow build-up of emotional intimacy is what will make your pairing so strong and sensual. Earth signs are deeply erotic once they feel love stirring within them, so let it happen at its own pace; the earth knows when it has reached critical mass. Once linked, neither of you will feel the need to go back to singles mixers nor search any further for a mate. Earth signs mate for life -- their loyalty is strong -- only the most extreme conditions could cause you to pull apart once joined.
So let others complain that you both are too slow and careful making up your mind about whether to wed -- then laugh at them later, when you celebrate your 50th wedding anniversary with your Capricorn.
I am Virgo, My Lover is Pisces
This is a pairing of poetry and practicality -- can it work? Sure! You both have heaps of what the other one needs. Those born six months away from one another form an astrological opposition. This actually means you can fit each other perfectly because each of you has what the other is missing.
Your Pisces lover is all right-brain: full of dreams, imagination, and compassion for others. Pisces may not be common-sense realists -- that is your domain -- but they more than make up for it by understanding some of the mysterious things in life. They excel at reading symbols and gestures, while you are a literal creature. Where you are precise, they are diffuse; where you are rigid, they are flexible; where you see limits, they see endless horizons.
Together you can accomplish a great deal. Being mutable signs, you both are open-minded, flexible people, and welcome new thinking and fresh ideas. Neither of you is stubborn nor competitive with one another. Where you are neat, compulsive, and detailed, your lover is just the opposite. Pisces live in chaos quite happily; it fosters their creativity. To set boundaries, sort, seal, and punctuate is too limiting for a Pisces; they swim better in open, unrestricted space. Who wants to worry about paying a bill or balancing a checkbook when one is thinking up words to a song about true love or plotting a film about empathy and loneliness? Pisces have human emotions on their minds as well as in their hearts; against the universality of the human condition, attending to housekeeping seems unimportant.
If truth be known, Virgo, you tend to be fascinated by this point of view and feel you could gain something from your Pisces. You are right. Each of you could learn from the other. While your Pisces could use more practicality and structure in his or her life, you could use the confidence to dream and build a bigger and brighter future. Too much of your attention is on day-to-day details. By seeing only that one piece of the mosaic, you fail to see how bright the whole picture could be. Your Pisces remedies this problem and unveils all the possibilities to you.
Pisces believe in the basic goodness of people and make it self-fulfilling by simply living life by this principle. They feel if they just allow goodness to triumph, it will. Others may manipulate them, but they know what is going on and allow it. If you need a Pisces' energy so dearly, they will allow you to have it, for their own well is deep and replenishes as they sleep. When Pisces lend money, they give it without any expectation that it will be returned. Pisces don't really lend anything -- they give it freely instead. It is perhaps with money that you are to find your most profound differences; Pisces are unmaterialistic, which would not describe your attitude. You wish your lover was wiser about financial matters, but his or her eyes are not on this world, but on the spiritual world instead. Somehow the Universe takes care of your lover. Perhaps it is because of the pure and loving vibes he or she sends out.
Pisces have a fine imagination but often don't know which ideas have commercial potential and which don't. They are pulled in two different directions (as shown in their symbol: two fish swimming in opposite directions). Here is where your common sense and practical approach to life could be valuable to your lover: Your words will be listened to (Pisces listen well, not only to what is said but the way it's said), carefully considered, and even accepted as truth -- making you feel especially needed and content. Your Pisces does need you, Virgo.
Pisces have the gift of ESP and know what you need without asking. You will forever be amazed at their ability to pick up on your feelings before you have related them in one of your precise Virgo statements. As good as you are with words, your Pisces doesn't need them. A look in your eyes or a scan of your face for traces of emotion is all Pisces needs to understand your innermost feelings.
Sexually, your blending will be heavenly. No one will be better at unleashing your erotic reserve than Pisces. Your lover has an uncanny ability to read your mind and make lovemaking fantastic. As a water sign, your Fish can dive to the depths of your soul. Your earthy nature prevents this from happening on its own; around your lover, you find you can swim in deeper emotional waters and feel things you've never felt before. Your earth sign is nurtured and enriched by your lover's water element over and over again. Pisces loosen up your all-too-prudent ways, and help you view the unlimited possibilities of life and love.
Your Pisces still believes in magic and make-believe and, being all too practical, you want to believe as he or she does, but haven't had the courage or the chance. Now you do. Since both of you are so shy and reserved, you will melt together with delicacy and tenderness. But you both want to sense authenticity and true emotion in each other first. Both of you have floodgates of emotion to unlock but tremble at doing so, lest you make yourselves vulnerable. Once sure though, you are able to unlock your hearts, and express those feelings in a spiritual and erotic manner. Neither of you is selfish or egotistical, so you will be sensitive to one another's needs. To both of you, sex is holy and beautiful, not something to be taken lightly, and thus, you won't be disappointed.
Hang on to your lover, and try to make this work. Know that there will be no shades of gray in this relationship -- it will be wonderful or terrible. In astrology, an opposition of Sun signs means that your personalities will either dovetail perfectly or forever be at odds. The end result is up to you.
2006-10-13 07:51:30
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