2006-10-13 05:48:08 · 24 answers · asked by ♥ Lady in Pink ♥ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
big_scary: Shyness does NOT equal selfishness. Actually, it's you extroverts who are the selfish ones!
2006-10-13 05:55:50 · update #1
Both my sons are shy, but they do care about people, and they seem to listen and remember things about people that I don't notice. They aren't shy if anyone takes the mickey, or just makes them mad, they'll strike out and shock others with their tempers, but that's after being pushed too far. Think what I'm saying is: If a person's shy, don't presume that they're scared.
2006-10-13 06:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, as long as they don't become a burden like they want you to do the things that they are supposed to be doing like running some errands because they are too shy to do it. Or having to make friends in their behalf. Otherwise, it is okay to be with shy people but hope they will soon come to terms that they need to gain confidence in order to succeed in life.
2006-10-13 12:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by ~Charmed Flor~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that bothers me about shy people is you can't get a word out of them in a conversation.
2006-10-13 12:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If they're shy to the point they let other people take advantage of them..then YES IT DOES BOTHER ME. But, if they're shy and cool, then I don't see any harm in it. I just don't like a push over.
2006-10-13 12:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by lookinforexcitement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, Shy people rarely bother anyone. That is part of them being shy. Or at least that's what I thought
2006-10-13 12:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, shy people remind me of a timid cat, or a shy child.
I thinks it's adorable. I tend to attrack a lot of shy people, because I am loud.
2006-10-13 12:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by danksprite420 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they dont bother me but if they stay closed while trying to build a relationship I get irritated
2006-10-13 12:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by jmcox27 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not as much as loud mouth extroverts.
2006-10-13 12:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by 11:11 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not really, unless I have to do a class project in a group. Then they kind of get to me.
2006-10-13 12:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by latanikagrant24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do hate it when people are so shy that you can't tell what they want. I'm not a mind reader, nor would I want that ability. It would be gross and intolerable.
2006-10-13 12:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋