This is happening on my job and it is a problem. Every time she gives me something to do and after I have finished it I return it to her, she gets very happy and tries to patt me on the butt. She did it once and now I just back up so she can't. What is up with that? I don't like her that way at all. It really freaks me out.
2006-10-13 05:40:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
is she older than you? I've noticed that older people find it cute to pat a person on the butt and not think anything of it.......Maybe you should ask her why she does that.....and tell her it makes you uncomfortable.......
2006-10-13 05:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
Ok, this isn't a Chinese custom, believe me. So it has nothing to do with being Chinese.
Find out if she pats everyone else on the butt, or if it's just you.
If it's just you, she probably likes you, and you would want to say "no" to her, and if she continues, then report the behavior to your supervisor. That is sexual harrassment.
If it is everybody, report it also, it is still sexual harrassment, but in a different way...she probably learned that is how you express happiness about something. Are the men complaining?
2006-10-13 05:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is on the head, shoulder, or in the back,
it is like a hand shake, but since you don't do it , they search a better place to express their feeling
:p
2006-10-13 05:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Henry W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROFLMAO. That's stupid funny! I don't know but good luck with that one.
Maybe you should comment about how you've been having the worst gas lately when you give her your stuff.
2006-10-13 05:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by 11:11 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing. Let her know you are uncomfortable with it and tell her to stop.
2006-10-13 05:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry when she pats your NACHO.
2006-10-13 05:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋