ok like yesterday, im only 16. i felt so much pain and sadness and lonelyness. all day. i dont kno why i felt this way. i felt like noone was there for me. I had thoughts of killing myself. i dont kno whats going on. I cant see my parents because i want to learn to care for myself. I'm only a wiccan child in need of advice. i cant see a doctor either.
another thing. Do u believe suicide is someones choice to kill themselfs and respect their choices.
please say something
2006-10-13 05:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey ...you need to talk to someone now, don't wait. There must be someone out there you trust...or call a help line in your area. Reach out & the help will come to you, you can & will get better.
2006-10-13 05:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, EVERYONE feels the "blues" now and again. It is completely normal for someone your age to feel this way, most, if not all teenagers feel this way at some point. If feelings like this continue, it's good to talk about them, especially with strangers...much like you're doing by posting this question. The notion of suicide is something that people can only understand if they've ever attempted to do so or have had serious thoughts about it. People say that it's a cry for help, but have those people ever felt like they were at the end of the rope. Sure there are people who say they're going to kill themselves, just to receive attention...but clearly there are issues that need to be resolved. Ask yourself, is it worth ending your life over? Can it honestly be that bad? Is your life worse than anyone elses...anywhere in the world? I know it's tough right now, but you honestly have your whole life ahead of you and it will get better and you will be happy. Please know that if these feelings persist, you should seek some help. You are not alone.
2006-10-13 13:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Wiccan, too, and I believe that suicide is not the best way out. Reincarnation will only bring around the same problems you are having now. Death does not fix problems, it only moves them to the next life. Anyway, life is too precious to end. You are worth so much.
You would not be failing yourself if you talk to your parents. Seeking help IS the adult thing to do, since you say you want to learn how to take care of yourself. Sometimes just simple talking is the best thing there is.
If not, then get out of the house and become active in something, anything. Find something that is related to your interests and volunteer in it. There's a grassroots movement called Goth Help Us. It's where Goths and the like do things in the community to help people and let them know that we are more than just the evil spooky kids. They have been doing alot of good, and I'm betting there is a chapter near you, since it's all over the world. The main site (they're on MySpace, too) is http://gothhelpus.org/.
Be strong and Blessed Be to you!!
2006-10-17 11:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by drewsilla01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NA suicide is never the answer. Your learning to grow up. Which mean you are being tested all kind of ways. You are at an age where your body is changing and you are not thinking straight.
Best way to help is you helping your self by doing the following.
1)Set up a routine, you know clean your room calls you family etc.
2)Meet friend and not just on the computer I mean real people. You need to know the skill and it will help you so much.
3)Go for a long walk with no music or anything. You need to think what you want to do in this lifetime. God or life will take your life away when it time is right. You don’t need to decide that. It’s already decided for you. You just do what you need to do this lifetime and your job is to share it with us your follow primates.
4)Set up a wish list like I did. It sound stupid but at age 40 most of my list is almost finish and I feel pretty good.
5)Find a good person, friend or family member you really trust. Meet him or her at lease once or twice a month just to talk things out. You need it, as much they want it.
Chin up, it will all work out.
2006-10-13 12:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you see your parents? If you want to take care of yourself, then start by going for counseling. Sounds like you need something to do that is worthwhile and will make you feel better about yourself. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, read to kids at the library. Be a mentor. Work with handicapped children. There a loads of people in the world who need a friend. Sounds like you could use one, too.
And, although suicide is a choice, it is cowardly and selfish and the person rarely thinks of the people they leave behind and what they have to deal with afterwards. I cannot respect someone's choice to end their own life and hurt the people they leave.
2006-10-13 12:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all understand that depression is suppressed rage, and you're experiencing various chemical and hormone changes within your body due to your age. I suggest you air your problems and concerns with a close family member or friend, and get involved in an after school project/hobby/sports... with some friends. Avoid watching/listening to the news, talk shows, and if you're using illegal substances; STOP using them. Go for long walks and greet people that cross your path with a warm smile and hello:) Good Luck
2006-10-13 12:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are depressed, yes you need help, yes you can go to your parents. yes you can go see a doctor at a mental health clinic for free. What you are doing is choosing not to, as for suicide if you were so ill and no chance of recovery then yes in your case defiantly not as you are very young and are making bad choices, get help. all you have to do is ask. There is a beautiful life ahead of you but it takes work so get started
2006-10-13 12:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I don't know you and you don't know me but I can relate to you. Growing up I had a tough life with no one to talk to. I didn't have a childhood I grew up fast. I grew up wishing for death. I know the feeling of depression and I know how to get out of it. I don't know what you are going through with your life but I know how you are feeling. You have to talk to someone and get your pain out. Also life you learn is a precious thing we have it does get better. So keep your head up trust me. I hope you read this and feel a little bit better and suicide is not a answer.
2006-10-13 13:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Curtis P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try and get professional help. I work with kids like you...and it helps to talk to someone other than parents and friends. From what you are saying you need to talk to someone soon. It helps. A therapist can support you and help you find solutions to your problems and feelings.
It's very scary at first to make the first step and get professional help. But i guarantee that it will help you out tremendously.
2006-10-13 12:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by Yessenia A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucide is never the answar, suicide is a permanant soltion for a temporary problem. at 16 you are still a child and don't realiaze there is a life out there and problems are never as bad as they seem at the moment. i do not believe it's our choice as we belong to our maker,and it's how we see our maker that determines how we feel about ourselves. every one of us has a destiny in life, god's destiny for us is determined by who we listen to,i believe pain is the precurser to change.you should never evaluate yourself by someone's ugly opinion of you.god has a destiny for you,our circumstances do not control us. listen to the witness that's inside of you, and it will save you. where we want to be in life is not always where we need to be.
2006-10-13 12:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋