my boyfriend worked with this girl who obviously had a major thing for him. she was always after him to hang out with her and would call him all the time. he said he only liked her as a friend, and thats all. then, he didn't call me for 2 days, and i couldn't get a hold of him. when i got out of my night class i saw that he had called me, and when i called him back, his phone was off. i called his roommate and he told me that he had left the apartment. i tried to call him all night and his phone was still off. well, needless to say, i was ready to kick his ***, and the next morning he calls me back. i went to his apartment and asked him where the hell was he, and he lied to me and told me that he went to bed early. i said i talked to his roommate and i knew that was a lie. then he said he was at his co-worker's house (that girl i mentioned earlier) and was watching a movie and fell asleep on her couch. he said nothing happened. i don't know what to believe. can someone help me?
2006-10-13 05:33:00 · 8 answers · asked by Katy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is doing the co-worker, no doubt about it. You must be pretty gullible in his mind that he would even pass off some lame *** excuse like he did. Darling, most of us men are treacherous bastards, there is something primordial in our thinking process that constantly has us thinking with our "other" head. We are constantly trying to add to our trophy cases and find it nearly impossible to stay monogamous. I think it has something that we have fought since the caveman days. I would suggest you dump the guy, there really are some "one woman" men out there but the pickings are slim. Luck to you.
2006-10-13 05:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know its obvious that he lied about where he was so why believe him about what he did when he was there? Move on he is not your husband nor do you live together so its easy to say goodbye!
2006-10-13 12:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by debra_har 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Kick his as*". How lady-like. No wonder he's found comfort in the arms of a clearly more attractive and feminine woman versus yourself.
I can't say that I blame the guy.
2006-10-13 12:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he went to her house and ****** her. you must be under 25 to have this question. look, take it from an older, wiser, and been through it all chick....break up with him and move on ....he lied, he cheated, and he thinks you are a fool. -good luck. some guys play you for dumb cause they want to see if you will let them....find one who is done playing....
2006-10-13 12:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Carmen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you already have the truth, he wants to be sneaky, you caght him who knows maybe it has been goin on for a time, she was always calling him, it was for a reason, if he not going to respect you, and emotions kick him to the curb. goodluck
2006-10-13 12:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your heart girl,this is not honest,open communication as you know,in fact highly suspicious.If trust/communication/honesty doesn't improve regardless of his whereabouts-let him go!
2006-10-13 12:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
something is definitely fishy.if he's committed to u he wouldnt have gone to that girl's house and spent the night there.
2006-10-13 12:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating!!! don't be in denial... it is hard to accept BUT HE IS CHEATING i have had personal experiences with the same story my friends have had the SAME stories told to them... the game stays the same BUT the players change!!!!!! THIS IS CRAZY I HAVE HEARD THIS STORY/SCENARIO A MILLION TIMES!!!!! HE IS CHEATING!!!
im sorry you have to go through this :(
2006-10-13 12:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋