How are Social people and Shy people able to live in the same city?

Question

I don't get it.. shy people like are hated, are thought of as useless. Then, loud social people do their parties, going out etc.. and so, shy people and social people live in different worlds and many times we don't mix. So how is it that we are able to live in the same society? I don't think it's effective as shy people are far away from the social structuress that businesses and family create( Businesses want outgoing , confident people. To have a family you need to be confident to date etc and meet people. also , you must help your parents and take care of the household)

Nothing is being done about it, and nothing can be done about it. So we're left with a city that's full of outgoing people hanging out with themselves.. and shy people dyiing out in depression

Answer 1

You can be alone in a crowd. You sound pretty down on society not being accomodating to people who don't express themselves.. but I think you aren't putting yourself in a position to -let people love you-. Even shy people can accept the love people give to them, so long as they allow themselves to at least be a part of a community. Businesses need people who can do very specific jobs for them... and some of those jobs are sales jobs, where very outgoing people fit in, and some of those jobs are in design and finance and attention to detail. Ask a salesperson how much they need somebody around that can pay attention to the details. Businesses need introverts to get the job done just as much as they need extroverts to sell the business to outside customers. Some places have too many of this and too little of that, or visa-versa, but in some places, the mix is juuust right, like goldilocks. Don't get caught up in the details... find out what you want to do, and keep looking for companies and places that can understand, and help you, go where you need to go.