okay, every night this past week, I'm asleep and my faince wakes me up by playing with my "stuff"... I work long hours, and need my rest, but every night she just decides she want's to "Cop a feel"..... I wouldn't mind it if it leads to something else... but it rarely ever does... I don't want to tell her to stop, because I'm afraid I'll hurt her feelings... IDK... it's a wierd situation.... ..
2006-10-13 05:20:56 · 18 answers · asked by Nick S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No not weird at all...you need your rest & who in hell can sleep when somone is getting them all worked up.
2006-10-13 05:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like sheisn't getting the attention she wants. Either give her a taste of her own medicine (start rubbing her ever so gently in the middle of the night)or spend time with her before going to bed. Remember chicks like to talk. I have been married 6 years tomorrow. My wife still wants to talk all the time. Good luck
2006-10-13 12:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by BDP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it while you have it...reach over and cop a feel of your own when she wakes you up that way...some day you will hear things like, "GET UP! THE DOG CRAPPED ALL OVER THE HOUSE!" and I promise you will long the day she woke you because she wanted to cop a feel...
2006-10-13 12:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea, if she wanted to play with your "stuff" and then go to the next step, that's great, but just play with it, and then leave you with a hard on, that's wrong. You should tell her that you love the fact that she wants and likes to play with it but it would be better if she did that at an earlier hour and when she was ready to do something with it. I would understand if my bf told me that. good luck
2006-10-13 12:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't lead to anything else? My ex loved when he would wake up to me tugging at his boxers. He always knew that it would end with a ******** or a quick morning f*** before we both had to get up for work.
It's kinda strange that all she wants to do is touch it.
2006-10-13 12:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sydney'sMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your fiancee enjoys "controlling" you. You might want to talk about this before you get married. Copping a feel without it leading to "romance" sounds very manipulative... Another question to ask her is why is she not sleeping at night?? You might want to consider couples counseling before you get married. Control and manipulation behaviors aren't healthy...
2006-10-13 12:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell her that you like it but you want the timing to be better. Just be sure to be open about it. It is not weird for you to not like the timing and it is not weird for her to like it. You just need to find something you both want and at the right time.
2006-10-13 12:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by RJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should start doing it back to her and let her see what its like. Or just talk to her about it and let her know that its bothering you. That you would rather ... than her just cop a feel whenever you are sleeping. hahahaha Good luck.
2006-10-13 12:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each their own. Talk to her. If I was you I would be in heaven most times she did that. I love middle of the night interludes LOL.
2006-10-13 12:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, before you go to sleep....pull your "stuff" out.....let her play, then calmly say....honey play now because I'm really tired and want to get a good night sleep......you can play whenever you want, just please let me get some rest.
2006-10-13 12:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by StephNLee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋