Ive been going out with my girlfriend for 4months and are completely in love with her. ive never felt like this about anyone. Ive had long relashionships before (longest being 3 years) and never felt anything like this, but the other night she told me that she kissed her ex (the one she was with before me). She said it meant nothing and relised it was wrong. We first met each other when she was dating him. We ended up cheating together and she broke up with him to be with me. She tells me all the time she loves me. Im upset about the whole thing and wondering what to do?
2006-10-13 04:45:28 · 26 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ever heard the saying, what goes around comes around????
there you go.....
2006-10-13 04:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this...do you really love her? Can you forgive her for doing this? Can you ever trust her again? Would you be willing to be played for a fool again? Do you know it will never happen again? It this something that you can be a part of? You cheated together and now she's done the same to you...what does that tell you?
2006-10-13 05:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you about it...she has chosen you again..you win...she didn't really cheat..was probably a mercy kiss...she's not hookin up in the back seat of the car on the way home from work is she...no...well lighten up and cut her some slack before she needs breathing room and gives you the heave ho!!
2006-10-13 04:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by Cadman1965 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was just a kiss BUT at the same time it could be more than that. If you love her you will have to trust her. Take her word that it was only a kiss and meant nothing.She did admit to you and she didnt have to so maybe it really wasn't nothing
2006-10-13 04:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she was willing to cheat on her ex boyfriend with you then she is probably prone to cheating on you with someone else. If it was just a kiss and if she felt that it was wrong then give her another chance. But be careful, don't give to much to her.
2006-10-13 04:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by His Dudeness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship,trust and sincerity comes first.
I feels that since your girl friend be frank to you about the kissing i feel she have been honest to you.but i cannot deny that she is not wrong at all. first of all,try to ask her whether she really likes you and if she says yes,i hope you can believes her.in the same time,make sure yourself really can accept about the mistake.if you cannot accept i feel that you should reconsider the relationship.and if you can accept,is the best.no matters how,just follow your heart.
2006-10-13 04:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds to me that it was nice of her to be honest with you, however, once a cheater always a cheater and if she cheated on her ex with you, she will cheat on you with her ex or someone else. You can't change a person, might be time to move on. Don't be a sucker.
2006-10-13 04:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here you go. You two are cheaters. So don't be surprised when you get cheated on. I know that isn't what you want to hear but you are too close to see the problem and you asked.
2006-10-13 05:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by carolinatinpan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheating on you is to be expected that's how you got together with her,but she should not make out with her ex,i believe she still have feelings for him be carful.
2006-10-13 05:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all she did was kissed him, and she immediately broke off, and came to you honestly then give her a 2nd chance. If it happens again then break the whole thing off.
2006-10-13 04:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by TL1004 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got a cheater, you knew that. Kissing isnt cheating (much.) Live with it or dont., but dont dwell on it either way.
2006-10-13 04:47:45 · answer #11 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋