lets see i met this guy but it didnt work out so after that i met new people and like right now im confused i feel like i lie more than 5 guys its really weird....
2006-10-13 04:43:15 · 26 answers · asked by some girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i meant like not lie sorry
2006-10-13 04:44:43 · update #1
Well i say to get to know someone else so that your not so focused on that one person. But u know my sister is that way and what i would say to her is, stop thinking that every guy is a good guy and u put your guards down and not to say that u will need to keep your guards up because u didn't want to run anyone away because your being to closed in and to yourself but stop thinking that every guy is who they say they is and if u do so happen to find a good guy then take it slow because guys run off of weakness. If they see that your gullible and very easy to WHO then they're going to run with that and use it to they're advantage. o that's one thing that u don't want to do is show them that u like them THAT much so soon they know that they got u. So take it slow playing hard to get ain't out of style. Stop acting like u need a man and you'll take anything that comes your way. Let them know that they gonna have to do good things to be with u and not saying that they have to spoil u and by u stuff although that wouldn't hurt, lol. But all in all, don't let them think that u will settle and start tellin' yourself that to so that , that will be the way u operate. So good luck and i hope everything works out. U need anymore pimpin' advise Holla at Yo Girl!
2006-10-13 05:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by the real deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem when i was younger. But with maturity, i simmered down and got to analyse guys. Its not falling in love, that i can assure you but a crush. And its a unique quality that is in all of them that's drawing you to each of them (e.g. one might be nice, the other, a funny guy, the other may have a nice body,e.t.c.).
To avoid any doubt, do this experiment. Draw up a list with their names on it and their advantages and disadvantages. The one that has the most advantages and least disadvantages is the winner.
And for future sake, take it easy as some of the guys are fakes who only want to use and dump girls. Hang out more with girls so you won't have to fall in their traps and don't be too willing to converse with them.
2006-10-13 05:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking isnt love. Lust isnt love. If youre horny you could probably do all 5 but its not love...its lust. You wont know if you love a person until you know them inside out...without the sex factor at first...but later WITH the sex factor.
Maybe you are inlove with love.....need intimacy or stability and dont care how you get it...perhaps it was lacking from your Dad in your childhood?
Dating is all about finding out about a person.....so date each a few times without sex on the agenda and see how you go. Remember that its not just about you either. You also have to feel that the guys you like have respect and liking for you. 75% of men will do anyone that offers...so dont offer yourself up like a banquet...and see who is still interested.
2006-10-13 04:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your just "in love" with the thought of being "in love" which is okay as long as you keep in control of it and dont let yourself be used by anyone or make huge mistakes like gettin pregnant or married too soon.... but hey its a part of life and growing up and learning and even when youre 99 there still something you can learn so relax and enjoy
2006-10-13 04:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to work on your self-esteem. Perhaps you are looking for yourself in these different guys? If you like five guys at a time, you might want to ask yourself if you are attracted to the personality traits they have and that you wish you possessed?
2006-10-13 04:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love and falling in "like" are two different things. It's wonderful to like more than one person. As time goes on, you'll be able to tell the difference. I assume you are not having sex with all these people.....that could lead to HUGE consequences.
2006-10-13 04:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I not really sure if you are falling in love or if its just that the package looooks soooooo good that it seems like you just have to have it. Get to know them see who they are behind the picture. Remember you cant just have the outside because there is whole lot more to it than that.
2006-10-13 04:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by JennieJen01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't have a hold of yourself,and don't love yourself,so you fall inlove with pretty much anyone who you think treats you right,just to end up in heartache.
I dont understand girls who do that. They want to be in a relationship but they dont even know themselves.
2006-10-13 04:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by sunkissedflgal21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things
You are desperate for attention and to be with someone that makes you happy.
You are too trusting of most people and probibly a bit naive.
Take it a bit slower. Get to know people better, before you jump into a serious relationship.
2006-10-13 04:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by creskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel ..but usually thathappens when someone break sur heart.liek in my case since my break up i feel i dont wanna fall in love but everyone i see or date it seems easy too.becaseu u want that feeling and want to be in love its wonderful feelin..so in every guy there is something u wanty that the other guy doesnt have only if u can break em up and put them in one man lol it would be ur ideal true love be careful.i wanna love too..n it suxx to get ur heartbroken beware..
2006-10-13 05:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by cbutterflyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋