Hmm..what are your opinions ?

Question

I''l start with the actual story. My partner and i tried to have sex for the first time with a condom on but didnt manage because he's penis was too big or i'm too tight. Then we tried to do it without a condom. He thrusted but still couldnt penetrate. This happened on the 30th of sept and i have got my period on the 19th of sept. We tried with a condom again on the 7th but still didnt manage and so he tried to penetrate again but still couldnt manage. even without a condom. Now i'm worried because while thrusting he might have had some pre-ejeculate. but is it possible? because it wasnt stimulated cos he was just trying to put it in. Last night i was feeling dizzy and i woke up feeling dizzy but then i drank a lot during the day and i felt better . Also i urinated quite a lot today but i think the liquids that i drank induced my frequent urination.My period is supposed to be coming soon. I'm stressing quite a lot. what do you think the chances of me being preg are ?
Thanks

Answer 1

There is a slight chance of you being pregnant but not much of one what I would suggest for the penetration issue is to go buy a lubricant gel or if you prefer not to go that way try oral first then try penetration

Answer 2

It is HIGHLY UNLIKELY that you are pregnant, I would say very little chance based on what you said you did.

I suggest you get some personal lubricant (such as KY -- you can buy it at the drug store) and use it liberally before trying to have sex again.

But so you don't put the cart before the horse, you definitely need to get on birth control -- there are pills, patches, rings, diaphragms, Depo-Provera, and IUDs to choose from -- BEFORE you try to have sex again. If you are going to have sex, you need to use birth control. Doesn't sound like the condoms are a good choice for you, espeically because you sound very inexperienced.

Make an appointment with your regular gynecologist, with Planned Parenthood (you only pay what you can afford) or with another clinic today.

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/

Answer 3

Yes, you can get pregnant by pre-ejaculate. You sound like you're a virgin so I would recommen that you stretch yourself out. Your partner can do this over a period of time with his fingers, gently stretching the skin. You probably have a hymen intact. You can go to your doctor and have him perforate it so it breaks more easily. Use plenty of lubricant like KY jelly. Be sure it's a water based lubricant if you are using a condom. Always use some form of birth control if you are not wanting a baby.
Also, I believe sex is for marriage, so, save yourself for that, trust me, it's better that way.

Answer 4

Sounds more like stress symptoms of a missed period and not pregnancy. There is a such thing as a pseudopregnancy, but that tends to occur more in women who want to be pregnant and cant get pregnant but because they want to be pregnant so bad they start to display symptoms and behaviors of pregnancy, or have lost a baby and are not coping with it well and still think they are. But you sound like you are more stressed because of the issues of you not being able to accommodate your partner.

Have you talked to a doctor about what is going on?

Answer 5

i believe you are not pg...sounds like he only tried for a few second and after penetration was not possible he quit. but yes he could have had pre-ejaculation... If you are worried about wait and see if your period comes and if it does not come take and test or go to the Dr.

Answer 6

Stress can delay your period so try to relax. Wait few more days (3-5) and take a home test. Good luck.

Answer 7

its possible but not that likely. if you miss a period test and if the condoms are not comfortable for the two of you then get on another form of birth control

Answer 8

there is a 50/50 chance--- i say wait a couple days b-4 ur period and take a test---good luck!