this isn't on occasion, it's all the time. we've been 2gether for along time. don't get me wrong i'm always up for the task, but i enjoy the pregame festivities. when there is that chance that it happens it's gooood. just curious!!!
2006-10-13 04:19:39 · 15 answers · asked by Daddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've had this problem several times, especially in longer term relationships. After some discussion, I found that women sometimes think "getting right to the point" is what WE want, which isn't always accurate. Sometimes what you need is to talk with your significant other. They aren't mind readers (although that would be nice sometimes). Next time it gets intimate, talk to her about it. You might try being encouraging about it rather than repremanding. Sentences that start with "I like it when.....", "It feels good when....", "Why don't we try......". See what happens.
2006-10-13 07:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by ezenbrowntown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe and I do foreplay sometimes.... Most of the time that 1 kiss gets me stimulated enough. But I take in consideration that he might need some more foreplay, so sometimes I let him start when he's ready and sometimes I'll start when I'm ready. Foreplay is good though like you said. I think it varies from 1 person to the next I mean we we're all created different, but if you want more foreplay you may just have to tell her, she might not know and she might want more foreplay also, but is afraid to bring it up because she dosen't know what you want and is afraid you might get mad or something.
http://www.men.com is a website that has a lot of answers to some of the common questions. They also have a magazine called, Men's Magazine.
2006-10-13 11:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by blu_eyes90210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me personally I like a little foreplay, but I really like to get down to the good stuff. I know that if I can get past the foreplay I will have so much more fun and a good bit of satifaction.
2006-10-13 11:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I love foreplay all the time, That's a best excitement.
2006-10-13 11:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually women have this problem with men, but I don't think it's abnormal. Maybe you should set the mood, romantic dinner, etc... and then initiate floorplay. When she tries to go "all the way" slow her down, and tell her you want to take it really slow this time. Tell her you love being with her, and you want to make this time memorable. Chances are, she'll want more "memorable" evenings.
2006-10-13 11:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dubs82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her that you'd like a little foreplay... My husband had to tell me... I always went straight into the good stuff... It is normal for some.....Now I give him and allow him foreplay time whenever he wants it...
2006-10-13 11:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by secret agent lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different; however, I believe the average woman has a tendency to like/need some foreplay. We need to...uhh... get warmed up if you know what I mean. :)
2006-10-13 11:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Nitnit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up and take control of the situation, dont let anything happen till you say so..... put in a good 30 minutes work and she'll be begging you for it.
2006-10-13 11:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really....foreplay is always good it's like stretching before a workout!
2006-10-13 11:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost sounds like she doesn't have time to relax...or doesn't know how to calm down & enjoy. Make sure you have lots of time & do it for her anyway...see what happens.
2006-10-13 11:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋