Am i doing something wrong during intercourse?

Question

I havebeen with this lady for sometime now,we plan to be married soon.But we have a problem.when we have sex i cant make her climax.I really try.Im not a minute man,so its not like it doesn't last long enough.She says that she has this special spot,and that i dont hit it right.I am not small by no means.I have tryed everything but standing on my while we are having sex.I have never had a problem satisfying a women before.She makes it seem that im not doing it right.I try moving around,inside,pushing this way and that way.nothing works,she want use her hands to help her self.She says its not the same if she clamaxs like that.Am i doing something wrong.or is there something else i can do.She makes me feel like its all my fought.

Answer 1

Slow down there big guy...You have said "I" a lot in your question and that may be part of the problem. Try a position where she can control the pace, the angle, the movement and rhythm. She knows where that spot is and knows when she is hitting it. Have her ride you and ask her to show you where the spot is with you inside of her. 99% of all women will be happy to show you how and where. Talk to her and it may just take a little practice with the two of you to find it. Pay close attention to the positions, depth and such when you do hit it and you can try to hit it from other positions as well...

Answer 2

No, Doll, I don't think it's your fault. I know for a fact that some women just don't really climax during intercourse--because I am one of those women! It makes my boyfriend feel bad, too. I do not blame him though, because he is really trying and he is not small either. If your lady has had them before during regular intercourse w/o manual stimulation then she she should be able to tell you explicitly what worked before and should be willing to work together with you to recreate that instead of making you feel inferior....It's not your fault---it takes two to TANGO!

Answer 3

properly thats kindaa ok if someone laughs some times throughout sex,and that still in case you adult males did something naughty or something humourous handed off straight away,yet when he's giggling like a jerk truly some the time,it type of feels there is an chance that something incorrect might want to be happening in his head expensive.yet another element you havent cleared that how he laughs,i advise the way your dude is giggling,is he giggling at ya?????????or something else,attempt to envision it out next time

Answer 4

let her be in control by being on top ..she should then be able to get you where you hit her spot...try oral this can sometimes work.....It does not always have to include penetration........there are many ways .....try different things.....more foreplay......good luck

Answer 5

Let her get on top and have a bit of control.

Answer 6

you really need to go down to an adult store and get some toys like some costumes, handcuffs, whips, torture candles, ect...

Answer 7

you didnt mention foreplay. if u do well with others and not with her, how has she done with others, sometimes ittake time for girls to relax with a guy.

Answer 8

get some hand cuffs whip cream and a blind fold(smile) good luck

Answer 9

intercourse does not always make the woman orgasm, try the other ways

Answer 10

her on top....or just try different posisions...doggy could work too...or try somewhere where she is up higher and "it" is angled up more...works for me...