I need help my EX boyfriend is one of my best friends and until we stared to date it felt weird and when we broke up it ****** up our friendship and I really need to talk to him and I jus don’t know how can anyone give me advice and me and his sister are good friends and I like going over there to see but I don’t want to go over there because it feels so weird and I told my mom and she doesn’t know what to do either?????!!!!!!!!!! HELP PLZZZZ!!!!!????
2006-10-13 04:11:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just call him up , if it dosent work ask his sis 2 talk 2 him
You will always feel awkward as you two once shared something special. You will need to be brave. Let his sister speak on your behalf first to say that you want to put your past of the relationship behind you and be good friends again and that you are upset that you lost your friendship. Then pluck up the courage to say to his face that you need to talk to him about putting things in the past. You were both hurt, you both learned now time to get over it. If he agrees great!!!! arrange for you his sister and another friend and a couple of his friends to go out bowling or do something for a day to help break the ice. It will be hard at first but as soon as you get talking and laughing again the barrier will be broken, start to hang out with him again (with other people with you).
If he disagrees, there's not much you can do. It's not your fault. Hes still living in the past. Move on.
hope u 2 make up
keep smiling
2006-10-13 04:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always feel awkward as you two once shared something special. You will need to be brave. Let his sister speak on your behalf first to say that you want to put your past of the relationship behind you and be good friends again and that you are upset that you lost your friendship. Then pluck up the courage to say to his face that you need to talk to him about putting things in the past. You were both hurt, you both learned now time to get over it. If he agrees great!!!! arrange for you his sister and another friend and a couple of his friends to go out bowling or do something for a day to help break the ice. It will be hard at first but as soon as you get talking and laughing again the barrier will be broken, start to hang out with him again (with other people with you).
If he disagrees, there's not much you can do. It's not your fault. Hes still living in the past. Move on.
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-13 11:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Keya Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the friendships are very important, so if your overpower the wierdness that you have when you visit his house everything should be good... but first of all try to talk about this to your ex bf and his sister.. im sure they might give you better advice than you think...
good luck
2006-10-13 11:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by Just ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that the relationship is in the past and ur friendship has nothing to do w/that. you need to talk to him or things rnt gonna get any better.
2006-10-13 11:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does his sis say? Write him a long letter from the day U met him up to today saying all your feelings. Be honest.
2006-10-13 11:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st mistake was goin wit em but since it's over and done you should go to his house and sit down wit em or just constantly tell em how you feel and if that don't work.... may God be wit yall
2006-10-13 11:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by realchikk101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b cofident and set it straight and talk to him
2006-10-13 11:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by questioneer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU sound confused
2006-10-13 11:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by IKNOWNO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blah blah blah
2006-10-13 11:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
2006-10-13 11:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋