Im asking this question for my brother. He is going through some rough things wit his gurl and he needs yall advice. Please help dis niccca out!!!!
2006-10-13 03:51:24 · 23 answers · asked by Monique22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's hard to say only because its easy to tell someone what to do when you on the outside looking in. If it was his friend he would tell him to leave the girl and get a new one, but love makes people deaf, dumb and blind.
2006-10-13 03:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were the girl or the guy in this relationship then I have something’s to share but you’re what we call a third party. You are not part of this problem. You’re just the end result of the problem so you are limited to the action you could take.
To deal with the problem you have to understand the people involved in this relationship by asking some hard questions. With you being the sister you need to answer these question and the answer will come.
1)Do you brother date other girls offend or only one person. By dating did he sleep with one person only or does he sleep around or he just date and doesn’t sleep around.
2)Do your brother has friends that is honest with him
3)Is you brother a loner or he has friend he hang with all the time.
4)Is the girl his first girl friend or first girl he sleep with
These question are set up not to attack your brother or the girl but to understand your brother may be weaken by lack of social contact with other and he feeling is strong about this girl due to their relationship. Tell him to stop will not do any good. He needs to take action on his own and learn in time.
Best advise is would say is just go and meet other girls as much as he can. Hang out with guys and do things he can enjoy. Love is like a drug in his brain. It will take time to get out of this.
2006-10-13 11:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who stays with a cheat, gets what they deserve. Tell your brother to grow a pair and leave the trash bucket alone. She obviously doesn't care about him, and whatever he has that she is using him for, need to be taken out of the picture. 8 times being cheated on , shows he has not real respect for himself, and neither does she.
2006-10-13 10:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Pae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Obviously your brother loves this girl or he would not keep giving her chance after chance. I feel that this girl has no love or respect for your brother or herself if she has cheated on him especially eight times. I know that he doesn't want to give her up but I think he needs to move on and find a woman that truly loves and respects him. Good Luck!
2006-10-13 10:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you need to be there for him it sounds like he is having trouble turning down someone he cares about. Tell him that a person shouldn't take that much from anyone. If he keeps going with her then she is going to think she can keep doing it because she knows he will always take her back.
2006-10-13 10:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon the emotional ties. If it was just to go out and have a good time, yeah, I would keep dating her. As long as there was no emotional attachments. If there were supposedly a "relationship," then...no, I'd cut it off because she has proven not worthy of my trust.
2006-10-13 10:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rick S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie if she cheated that much then i dont think you brother is not doing something is he giving the full story there is a reason why she keeps cheating either he is too or no intimate relations or that just her some people cant commit (smile) tell your brother good luck
2006-10-13 11:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by reddiwhip2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. thats rediculous! u see she sounds like the kinda person that goes out wit a good guy and then walks all over him for the fun of it. i suggest that he finds a new girlfriend(after chillin out for a lil bit makin sure its over wit her and hes ok to date again) and then throw it in her face that he found somebody who likes him and doesnt cheat on him. once a cheater always a cheater(in almost all cases)
2006-10-13 11:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by smalls8802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is well past the help stage if what you say is true.
Leave him be. If he won't listen than he can let this be a lesson when she steps up to the plate for the 9th time.
2006-10-13 10:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this nucca needs to move on to a new gurl, ya mean? He needs to get a dime, thats top of da line, cute face, slim waist, and a big behind.
2006-10-13 10:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by ryanconnarton 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋