why do people think fighting will solve their problems?

Answer 1

Dont be a *****, fight

Answer 2

Sometimes a bully will pick on a person for the simple reason that that person is an easy target, and the bully knows the person will not fight back. This kind of problem will stay with a person until he or she either fights back or seeks an authority figure. However, in the latter case, this is liable to make the person's problem worse and make him or her lose face not only in the eyes of the bully but in the eyes of his or her peers (and also it can cause a loss of self-respect). If one is willing to fight when it is clearly called for (and not overdo it), he or she can solve certain problems.

This is also what Neville Chamberlain should have done with Hitler instead of the "appeasement method", but oh well...that's history and he learned that "peace in our time" was a delusion born out of a reluctance to fight when it was clearly called for!

Answer 3

I am not sure if people think fighting will solve their problems. I think what happens is we let our emotions take control. I want you to understand and agree with what I think, and you want me to understand and agree with what you think.

The problem is if I say "I know that your not trying to pressure me but I feel presured." Then the other person hears "your pressuring me."

Our emotions take over and we don't always "hear" what the other person is truely saying. This is an example of couple fighting.

Fighting among people such as knock out drag out kind of thing.
For men it is mostly an ego thing. If a guy gets in another guys face then the man must proove that he the stronger one. For teenagers male or female it is still a proof of who is tougher and cooler.

Most people that fight all the time I believe have a lack of communication skills, but let me add that I don't see two guys talking out their problems. Girls are more likely to talk things out after all the name calling if it is a friend. If it is two girls that were never friends again I don't see them talking things out. In the relationship aspect it is a lack of communication and sometimes a control issue.

I think that their are multiple reasons why people fight, but I think deep down inside we know that it is not going to solve things.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Because they having learned how to communicate. Sure everyone knows how to talk at one another but they don't know how "to" talk "with" eachother.

What I mean is that people talk to people wanting to hear the answers they expect to hear. People don't really listen to what the other has to say.

Not only that but people are unwilling to compromise even when they've listened.

So this is why fights occur.

Answer 6

It's what They are used too, and Normally the way they were raised(It's a Mind-set)!
I Guess it's Hard to Break the Cycle of 'Fists First' mentality!

Answer 7

it seriously depends on the issue.
sometimes just kicking someones a** is the only way to get through to them what you're trying to explain.
other times its better to try and talk it out first before you fly off the handle.
but if the persons not listening its hard to keep control of your anger.

Answer 8

some times you have too. to hold on to your freedom like George Washington and the founding fathers, to hold on to your self respect and not be a slave. you should never fight to push your ideas on some one else as the muslims are with terrorism.

Answer 9

I guess it relieves stress, like in hockey, but I always try to break up fights when ever I see them. I guess I don't agree with it.

Answer 10

It has been a problem since Cain killed Abel so only god knows
why. I always hated History because it seems it was only about
wars

Answer 11

We know it won't, but it makes us feel so much better to give a beating on someone thats done u wrong, & make an exzample for others.