i've a friend and since monday she's been ignoring me. i've asked her what i did for her to be like that but she starts dissin me and make rumors bout me. one of my friend told me that i should do the same thing and ignore her as well. should i listen to her or what?
2006-10-13 03:16:39 · 14 answers · asked by shanti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Consider your friend's advice. Since your other friend chose to ignore you and not even explain why, ignore her. Your friend made it very clear that she doesn't want to be bothered by you and that's not the kind of friend that you want. You're doing whatever you can to try and fix whatever you did and she does not want that. Don't play games with your friend either because you don't want to stoop to her level. Continue to make new friends who will not ignore you and not even give you an explanation. Stay focused and keep your head held up high. You will get through this. I promise. Best of luck.
2006-10-13 03:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start any rumours, that would be the worst thing you could do as it would just make matters worse. Ask her again what you have done wrong, and why she feels the need to spread rumours. If she is still being rude and ignoring you then by the sounds of it she has lost a friend, let her get on with it and hang around with people who treat you with respect.
2006-10-13 03:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please dont ignore her as if she is ur best frnd than she wont be comfortable with whatever she is doing for long so my opinion is be strong at ur point and when everything comes to normal which would take some days make her realise that u stood strong on ur frndship stands and she was the one who just got diverted from the track
2006-10-13 03:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by aks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be offended by your friend...Just give her time and soon you will find out the reason she is doing these things to you but you should never make rumors about her also even thou you want to get even...dont it will just make things even worse...just give it time
2006-10-13 03:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your ex bestfriend that why is she behaving like that...if she still doesnt listen to you n continues spreading rumors about you...then pls go ahead n ditch her too.
2006-10-13 03:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, either she has a new man in her life, or you really did something. Stop think about what you did, if nothing and she wont tell you than she's not your real friend.
2006-10-13 03:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by Killa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur other friend is right listen 2 her .
ignore that best friend of urz .
when she asks u why u r behaving like that
ask her y she was behaving like that and move away
dont try 2 ask her watz wrong
trust me this will work out.
hope u 2 become frnds again
remember wat I said
bye
2006-10-13 04:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her as much as you can and if she starts to talk to you don't interupt her. But if she has new friends try to make friends as fast as you can.
2006-10-13 03:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by scruffycat101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am ignor her as well so she can see u dont bother at all
2006-10-13 03:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.i know that deep down in your heart you still want her as your bestfriend.if she is still with the negative one my advice is to dumb her.
2006-10-13 03:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by neal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋