We have been together for over three months now, which is long term for me. We are very much in love and say it every time we see each other. Every time I see him I get butterflies and feel like nothing else matters.
2006-10-13 02:52:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Congratulations!!!
You are in the "honeymoon" phase of the relationship. This is even when his farts seem attractive. This is an absolutely wonderful feeling, and I believe it is one of the true joys of being human.
My fiancee had this too, and she shared it with me later. I was also very much in love with her. She shared with me much later that early in our relationship she would drive by my house and point out to her friends, "There's where he lives!". It was very sweet. *smile*
Some things to be aware of though:
1) For the most part, it takes guys a little longer to settle into being in love. In the 3rd month of our relationship if my fiancee had told me she was doing that (driving by my house), it would have freaked me out a little. So a woman's strong attraction can scare a guy a little at first. Just be aware of that and know that it is okay to love him, just be discreet about it at first with him.
2) Know that It is all right if he is not quite there yet, just give him some time to catch up. Continue to be with him, and he'll learn what he loves about you. We guys are trained to not get "trapped" in this society, so he may keep his eye on other prospects until he is certain of his feelings for you. But it is okay to care for him. Ultimately we guys love this feeling, and can't get enough of it.
Tip: You may not always want to have sex with him. Even if you have, you may want to hold back at times and just have foreplay, because there is a tendency for guys who have had sex to feel like we have "conquered" and move on. This is a societal thing. If you really love this guy, keep him wanting you more for a while. And then let it happens when it feels right. (Some guys would kill me for that comment...)
3) Eventually the honeymoon phase will end, and you will see the truth behind the golden mask. Just be aware of that, that eventually you will see him for who he really is. THIS is the true test of a relationship. Can you still giggle when he farts? Can you love him even though he left the seat up? Can you not kill him when he forgets to put the toothpaste cap back on?
If your relationship can survive the calming down period, then you have a good chance of being with this guy for a long time. I would recommend not getting engaged or married until this honeymoon is over. But for now... ENJOY IT TO THE FULLEST!
And again, congratulations :)
2006-10-13 03:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jericho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New love is the best feeling. I dont think its obsessing at all, just be careful with the "nothing else matters" part. Dont give up your friends or the things u enjoyed before u met him, because if things dont work out in the end u can burn bridges u cant get back. You havent been in a long term relationship before so to u 3 months seems like a long time, but it really isnt at all. Just enjoy what u feel now, its hard to find sometimes
2006-10-13 03:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh! To be young and in love is the most wonderful feeling. As with any other thing in life, it does have its pitfalls. Hope your feelings can last as they are now for a very long time. However, as with anything else in this world, It gets old after some time. I heard say one time that a relationship is like new gum; sweet as can be at the start then the flavor seems to wain. Love with gusto while the feeling persists. Obssesion it is not
2006-10-13 03:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a great feeling, I hope it lasts for you. Just remember, don't just say the words, actions are most important, make sure both of you show that love everyday. I don't think you are obsessing, it's so normal to think of the person you love all day. Best of luck to you in this promising relationship.
2006-10-13 02:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not obsession persay. But just be cautious with how much time you spend together and say I love you. Don't be up each others butts all the time. From experience, don't over crowd each other too much, you'll get tired of each other so fast it'll make your head spin! :)
2006-10-13 02:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is abnormal about this. welcome to life. everyone goes threw this. get used to it. hhah its funny though how ur like im in love and i need to let the world know ah i know ill just put it on yahoo. blah no one gives to craps that ur in love bye
2006-10-13 02:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like love to me
2006-10-13 03:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is,,,,,i think about my boo all the time and it has been 1 yr and 3 mons....its normal
2006-10-13 02:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you cant get someone outta your mind maybe they are suppose to be there..=]
its probably love hunni ! good luck im in love too its the best feeling ever in the world !
2006-10-13 02:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its normal!
2006-10-13 03:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by ilvtnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋