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I am a short ugly thin almost black boy of 17. 3 years ago I made friend with a very beautiful white goodlooking boy of my age. sinse then I have been envying of him and I really want to be like him pretty. also I want to touch his body. we are the best friends. I haven't shown my feeling about him ( that I want to be like him and I want to touch him) yet.
What should I do? to get rid of this sense?
I have declined in my lessons..
and have changed to a very immoral and bad-tempered pathetic person...
once I tried to break up with him and I did it but after 2 weeks I couldn't stand not talking and being with him, and went to apologize...
I can't leave him because I love him... because he complements me...

Remember that he is not a gay....
in our culture and community it's against law and our religion to be

2006-10-13 02:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

Of course Im a very capable and gifted person and have the ablities that most of the people don't have...
But I want none of these Goddamn abilities, I just wanna be as beautiful as he is ...

2006-10-13 03:19:39 · update #1

6 answers

I think you need to find some one impartial to talk to because you sound like you have very low self esteem and no confidence.
Try and discover yourself for a while and find out who you truly are then tell ur friend.

2006-10-13 02:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chloe B 2 · 0 0

i'm sorry you have to go thru it, and i'm sorry that you live in a society where it is legally wrong to feel that way. if you were here in america, i would tell you to follow what you feel. to sit down with him and tell him he is your best friend and you love him to death, but you feel more and dont know what to do because you dont want to lose his friendship if you acted upon those feeling.

first, you need to feel better about yourself. you're 17. all 17 year olds are akward. i know i was. you're probably not ugly either. everyone has something that someone will find beautiful. even if you cant see it for yourself. people tell me i have a great smile. i hate my smile. but its not for me to say what other people find attractive. thats the beauty in beauty, its subjective.

what do you envy about this guy? that he's white? that he's beautiful? what's beautiful about him? great body? or just self confidence that shows thru? maybe you guys should work-out together. you'll help each other, it will help your confidence, and give you the time together you want. *sweaty boy with no shirt* :)

you're probably depressed and confused by what you're feeling, and its making you not pay attention at school and start acting out. you need to find a way to control your depression, be it medication, exersize, meditation, art......

good luck hun. *hugs*

2006-10-13 09:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0 0

I think u should tell him, my best friend is gay and hes all the time talking about this one guy he likes and once they got together and that guy broke his heart....BUT the guy said he was sry and knowing my friend, he took him back which was for the better so i think u should....sometimes you have learn the hard way to know if that person is right for u or not...

2006-10-13 12:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 1 · 0 0

you are young and everyone at some point in their adolescent years has had homosexual feeling. i think your trying to do the right thing to distance yourself from him. like you said its against your law and religion is it really worth the trouble it will cause by opening up to your friend about your feeling

2006-10-13 09:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by clutterbug84 3 · 0 0

Act on your feelings. You'll be surprised at the results.

2006-10-13 09:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0 0

Tell him what u fell..and go for it..!

2006-10-13 09:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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