wat happened we are both 20 and we have a baby and we werent working and arguing all the time.she got fed up and moved home i still love her but she doesnt want me please help me
2006-10-13 02:42:50 · 11 answers · asked by darragh m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
where is the baby???????
2006-10-13 02:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its obvious why u would be agruing all the time if u just had a baby and neither one of u were working, thats too much stress and being together 24/7 under those conditions would make any couple nuts. She moved back home because that would be her "safe zone" The first thing u need to do is get a job and make your home as much as a stress-free place to be as possible. Show her u are ready to stand up and take care of her and your new baby. Money problems is among the top things that split couples up. You have a new baby, do the right thing and provide a life for the woman u love and your new family, when she sees this she will be more than happy to come back.
2006-10-13 09:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to prove to her that you want her. You can't just do those things that you are expected to do, you have to go over the top. It's those little things that you do that count. Helping her with the baby is something you are expected to do. If you don't have a job, get one. If you are overprotected of her, ease off a bit, she'll appreciate you more. Give her a girls night, take the baby. Buy her flowers. Do little romantic gestures that you don't do. Take her to the movies. Since there is a baby and you are young, its not expected for you to spend all this money on her simply b/c you probably can't afford it. But you can buy things for the baby. Hey and well if you are really nice to her, then let her see its her lost. Why should you pour your heart out and all she's going to do is stomp on it? It's when you stop bothering and sweating her, that she'll realize she wants to be with you. There's a point when you have to realize that its over, at least for now.
2006-10-13 09:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. First get a job and settle down financially self-sufficient. Then think of her. Moment she knows you got a job she will be more than willing to come back to you. The problem earlier was that you had nothing to do. Hence you got in to a problem arguing.
2006-10-13 09:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to raise a baby in an unhappy home... that's not fair for that child. Figure out what you guys have been arguing over and settle it once and for all... after that has been worked out THEN you can try to make a healthy home for your child.
2006-10-13 09:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try working again and make an effort to show her that you really want to be together for your baby's sake if nothing else.
by getting a job, it shows her that you really want to support her in every way you can.
2006-10-13 09:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and tell her sorry and apologise to her . tell her how much u love her and convince her . i am sure dat she will come back to u . if u wana any more advice mail me at deepika_r92@yahoo.com
All d best
2006-10-13 09:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.Edward cullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depending on what actually happened if you can try to talk to her. dont push for it cuz u r going to push her further away. but gradually try to fix the problem and work on your communication
2006-10-13 09:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by lovenicci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOYYYYY go buy her some roses, some chocolate, and get on ur knees and beg for forgiveness lol...
2006-10-13 09:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, it doesn't work the second time around.
2006-10-13 09:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by apriljm76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like war:easy to begin..but very hard to stop...Tell her how much u love her..!
2006-10-13 09:46:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋