Why is it so many guys on here have hang ups or lie about the size of their manhoods ? I was only given the bog standard 6 inches , i've not had any complaints and my wife and i have produced 2 beautiful looking , healthy children , surely that should be enough for most peole ? What do you think ?
2006-10-13 01:57:29 · 22 answers · asked by naturist 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
People find it hard to mention their real size.
Facing facts, women worry about their breasts and men worry about their penises. These are the main identity of male and female.
Why do women have breast implants for? I mean, the majority of men prefer real boobs right? Well I do!!
However, its "the" identity and women want their breasts to be in tip top condition. Women dont want it to look average.
If we look at the penis, you will find its the same issue. Even though the majority of women say their happy with a normal size penis, men still want to be bigger.
At the end of the day, women cannot hide their breasts, but men can hide their penises. Because of this, it becomes more of a mystery to know what size guys are, even other guys to "compare".
Many men will always say things like "Well mine is 8 inches!! Is that good?"
Lets look into this comment!! I mean, this guy has made out his penis is bigger than the average and he also makes out as if he doesnt know if his size is okay.
Every man has measured his penis atleast ONCE!! Why do guys over exagerate their member? Because guys are afraid of reality. They are afraid that their real size is small and wont impress fellow ladies. It can also be a threat if another male is bigger than him.
Men are afraid what a women would really think about their size, and according to guys, size means power, dominance and masculin Identity!! Whoever is the biggest, is more of a MAN!!
To me, I have risen above all this crap!!! I am average, and I have no shame in being average because that is what I was born with. It is no different being born with everything else that makes me ME!! There is more to sex than the size of a mans member!!
I suppose every girl has a preferance to the penis, but I am sure that my member will fit well with someone out there. ;-)
Afterall, women worry about their breasts because all the celebrities today all have had their breasts done, and it can be depressing to see nicely defined breasts. For guys, it can be depressing seeing guys with big dicks on all the porn videos. I guess these are just examples as to why we are always insecure as human beings!!
SAD ISNT IT? RISE ABOVE IT PEOPLE AND ACCEPT YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE!!
I will end it here, and I am sorry I am not a ladie!!
All the best!!
2006-10-13 12:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi luv!
Like I said countless times before in countless other answers, size doesn't necessarly matter per se. The important thing is not the size of the tool but how the tool is being used! I went so far as to even say in print that anywhere betwee 4 and 7 inches is ample enough if the man owning the toll knows how to use it properly.
As for bigger sized penises, I personnally find them nice to look at, fun to play with, but penetration becomes painful from such huge members, especially when it comes to an*l sex or rough sex.
Plus it has been my experience that the longer the tool, the less hard it is! And since I prefer my tool(s) to be rock hard and ready to deliver, I tend to not really get overly excited over bigger ones.
But not all women think the same way. I am certain for some women, size does matter, although I can say that by experience, not all well endowed males are good lovers in practice, whereas most of the more "regular"-sized fellahs I've been intimite with were rather good in their "performances"... !
2006-10-13 02:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I value opinions that are backed up by a few criteria. First would be facts. That is what I look for when I ask questions here on Yahoo. What are the facts? OR, is it just an opinion that is ideally put down in writing. Second, I look for intent. Is the opinion out of concern; is it out of Godly principled love? If not then I do not pay much attention to it. Third, is it logical? If it doesn't ring true to me, I question its value. Fourth, Does it go along with my Bible trained conscience? That is the true value. If it stands up to these 4 points (and I'm sure there are more but that is what is coming to mind), then it is a very valued opinion. The Zeb ;)
2016-05-21 22:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average length of the vaginal canal is also 6", so actually that is a generally perfect match. I think guys start measuring and get hung up on that. Truth be told a 9 incher that is very thick would be painful and the man would have to do some things to avoid hurting his partner, while a 2 incher could impregnate his partner and using enough good foreplay and technique pleasure his partner adequately. 6" is perfection.
2006-10-13 02:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by mary_n_the_lamb 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends what you're used to I suppose. But I do feel that there are too many people who are fascinated by large manhood's. Look at the raft of programmes out and all the pornography that exposes this. I agree with you that it is not all about size to have a good sex life!
2006-10-13 02:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by dochsa.co.uk 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because men seem to think that the size of their manhood is the most important thing to women when actually it rates quite low in the list of attraction.
2006-10-13 02:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by sarah k 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is totally a guy thing that women simply cannot comprehend. The size is supposed to be for pleasing a woman, right? And women don't give a hoot! So why do guys obscess over it? - I sure don't know. I've never heard a woman comment on this, but men seem to think it's reeeeeeally important - to whom? (To the men, I suppose.)
2006-10-13 03:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree with you. Why does it matter? I'm fortunate enough to have a husband with a large penis but even if he didn't it wouldn't bother me. I've been out with a man with a very small penis (his ego more than made up for it though! I think he was over compensating). It is more to do with what you can do with it. If you and your partner are happy what does it matter to anyone else? I Do women go around discussing the length of their labias?
2006-10-13 02:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Size don't matter luv, its what you can do with it and how good the experience is for both people. Most men are liars about size and the ones that say they are huge are usually the ones who are no good in bed anyway!
2006-10-13 03:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by BlondeBabe 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think what you do with what you have is the most important thing. The G spot is less than a finger length inside a woman and I have never met a man with one too small to reach it. I have met plenty who are unable to get it on target though.
2006-10-13 02:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋