Is it wrong to date a guy 4 years older than you?
2006-10-13 01:50:20 · 18 answers · asked by skull 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It matters how old you are.. if your 14 and hes 18... yes it is wrong... if your 18 and hes 22 there is going to be problems... your going to want differnt things from life.. but worth a try... if your 22 and hes 26... definitally go for it... it just matters what stage of life your at and what stage hes at... im 23 and im getting married to a 32 year old... we have issues like everyother relationship but were good to go :) If you think you might be to young right now... or what not just work on being a good friend to him... then later on you can try to make a relationship with this guy :)
2006-10-13 01:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by chrystal_lynn2002 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. An older man can teach you things that someone your age might not be able to (not just sex but about interacting within a relationship) and he's likely to be in a better financial situation than you which obviously makes your life easier!
If you're a minor then you should be careful with your decisions, but in principle there's really nothing unhealthy about an age gap.
2006-10-13 09:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by dantestraw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Even if you're 14 it's legal in most states, however if you find yourself asking complete strangers if it's wrong odds are there's something going on with him that you're not comfortable with. Take a solid look at your relationship with this guy and try to figure out why this is botherring you so much.
2006-10-13 08:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it might be if you are under 18 and he is over 18. otherwise it dont make much of a difference. 4 years is about average for men n women to date. i am 21 n my boyfriend was 34. we broke up but not because age it was cuz he was a bum lol. but 4 years is no biggie.
2006-10-13 09:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! I'm with a guy thats 6 years older than i am. There are really no age gaps, unless you have a fatherly aged guy. That is just plain sick. LOL Why would you think that this guy is too old for you? What are your ages?
2006-10-13 08:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by foxxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are legal age to be seeing him(18). I would say happy dating.
2006-10-13 08:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are over 18...in that case thats is the perfect age difference however if you are under 18 then NO!
2006-10-13 08:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by laguna_beach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope you are of legal age. If you are, then yes. my wife is 10 years younger than I am.
2006-10-13 08:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
four years isn't bad my boyfriends 8 years older than me and im18
2006-10-13 08:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by tracey a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are??? if your 14 then YES that would be wrong
if your over 18 then no it doesnt really matter!
2006-10-13 08:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by JUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋