I am a 30 year old girl who is still a virgin, and when you tell guys that or when you get intimate they always seem to run away and I never see them again, is it a mistake to tell them.? WIll I ever meet someone thats going to respect me for me?
2006-10-13 01:40:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Gurl you rock.... That's great that your a virgin, and men that don't respect that is the wrong people to deal with you will find someone who will cherish you just like you have cherished your self/.......
2006-10-13 03:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by tee k 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A lot of great answers here!
I think you should keep telling them. You'll soon find guys that will respect and cherish you.
I don't agree that you should not tell them. That will make it more difficult for you. There is always a point when things get more intimate, and.........is it a good thing to just keep quiet? Or lie to them? Of course not.
You're a rare breed! And deserve the best! Keep looking!
Umm.....but why are you asking this in the Horoscope section?
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2006-10-14 10:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Spica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never a mistake to tell people about your beliefs. You will one day find a person who is going to respect you for how you have chosen to live your life, and hopefully they will have waited until they found the right person. There is always someone out there for everyone, you just have to look hard enough to find them. Good luck
2006-10-13 14:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by squeeky1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the catty remarks here. There's nothing wrong with you. It's a decision you made. You don't have to tell the guy ur dating of your situation. Like I said, if and when you decide to "give in", the decision is solely yours. You'll eventually find some1 who is worth the wait.
Some guys exit the door immediately because they feel they can't commit to the responsibility of "deflowering" you. Girls tend to be clingy to their cherry poppers ;-). So it scares most guys off.
2006-10-13 08:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy_Momma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first respect yourself, being vergin at 30 is not a uncommom thing, uncomman thing is your negative thinking about you . in your innerself you are not able to accept the fact that there is nothing wrong with you in not having sex. it is intimate thing and will happean when ever you find some one special. all the boys who are running away do not have common emotional bond with you. so wait you will definately get your some one special if you treat yourself as special
2006-10-13 08:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not a mistake in telling them...first of all they should b happy ur a damn virgin...b/c u could never have been exposed to anything(diseases)...that is just stupid to run away, but there DUMB so wateva yuo WILL find some 1 u just go through a few rotten ones to find the good 1....
2006-10-13 08:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Beautifull 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dating a virgin is a bigger commitment. If they have sex with you, they can't give it back after they leave you.
Also, they might think that you will expect something of them- long term commitment or something like that, which they aren't willing to give on the first few dates, so naturally they will re-evaluate their relationship with you.
I'd suggest that you'd not mention being a virgin- after all, is it that important? What will happen, will happen.
2006-10-13 08:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by dane 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think staying virgin at 30 is really something. so if you waited that long to keep yourself intact perhaps you should wait for Mr. Right Guy to marry you. Then all your efforts would not be wasted or be sorry if you allow yourself in an affair you'll regret later.
2006-10-13 12:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by marikit _ako 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the men you have dated know that you've waited this long for a reason.They assume that you are going to make a big deal out of it and they don't want to be that monumental in your life. You will find someone who is right for you.IF they don't want to take your virginity that means they probably don't want to stay with you for a long time.hey, and look at it this way, at least they aren't using you for sex!
2006-10-13 11:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by lucky girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell them right away - it's not neccessary. Let them get to know you first - you'll know when the time is right to tell them. Be patient, you'll find someone - maybe you're looking in the wrong places. Try meeting someone at church, they should respect your decison, even if your choice is not based on religion.
2006-10-13 12:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋