with them due to some "issues" and you keep friends as you both move on with your lives BUT!!! they keep coming back begging and pressurising for more s**, does that mean you are quite good in bed?
They really want to sick around, they come back even after years!
Please be honest and no insults. thanks alot.
2006-10-13 01:38:12 · 33 answers · asked by kiss me. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you have s*x with a guy, and then you split, but he comes back....then it means either
1) you were good
2) he can't get it anywhere else and is desperate
either way....you are probably the best he has ever had, or will ever have
give yourself a "10" rating
ps...nice eyes
2006-10-13 02:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in a situation where i was with a guy for 6 months last year and we split up a year ago. We did not have a great rel to be honest we just had sex, we had both come out of long rel and either of us was not ready for another rel so we was just friends who had sex together until we was ready to meet someone else.
He still texts me now. But he only texts me when he has a bust up with his girl friend if he is happy in his love life i don't hear from him.
I have not slept with him in a year. Someone needs to remind him of that!!!! lol
I am relieved that i have not slept with him
God girl don't do it, don't go back just go forward
good luck
2006-10-13 03:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it basically sounds like the guys get bored with what's going on in their life and they come back to you for some easy stuff. If you gave it up once then you're probably going to give it up again. It has nothing to do with you being good, it's just that you have a hole they want to fill.
2006-10-13 01:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are fairly young Kissme or you might have had time to work this one out. Men of any age are devious creatures when it comes to procuring sex , it's a genetic thing, they just can't help themselves. It is hard wired into their systems, if it wern't the human race would have died out a long time ago.
If you are looking for reassurance regarding your own sexual prowess or attractability don't worry because men might think they are in charge but really it is the women who choose!!
2006-10-13 01:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Pattythepunk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if i am desperate for sex i will always contact my weak minded ex girlfriends and try to persuade them for some sex. It does not necessarily mean that you are good at it but maybe a sure thing. This is in no way trying to be abusive but honest as requested.
2006-10-13 01:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Chris B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some ways it is true....If you are really good yes they will keep coming back for more...as for me this is absolutely true...there are certain girls that I will go halfway around the world just to sleep with and that because it was so good the first time...sometimes I go back....but I am always unlucky...D
2006-10-13 01:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that you are good in bed but what it probably means is that he knows he can get it from you whenever he wants.
I would just say no next time. If he really wants to be 'friends' then he will accept it.
2006-10-13 01:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means he knows you will give into him each time, thats why he keeps coming back, you really need to stand up for yourself and say no. this is not the life any of us would want to lead, you would not be ripped of by a shop, so don't be ripped off in a relationship either! good luck to you, BE STRONG!
2006-10-13 01:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by eckisix 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it means that he just wants sex. He knows he can always come to you when all else fails. But he does not want to be in a relationship with you. Grow up, get rid of him, start saying "No", and move on to better things.
2006-10-13 01:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lick_My_Toad 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation as you are now with my x.
It turned out that he didnt want a relationship with me but he didnt want to let me go either so having sex ment we kept an interment conection between us.
The only way to find out is ask him what hes getting out of this apart from sex.
2006-10-13 02:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋