My mom is always working and is never home all my friends want me to have a party, but I don't know what to do,,,,,,,,
2006-10-13 01:34:29 · 19 answers · asked by honduran_monkey14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would say to not do it. You should respect your mom enough to respect her home(that is unless she doesn't care). You should also respect yourself to not let peer pressure lead you to do something that you might not want to do.
2006-10-13 01:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by YellaMelaDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss this with your Mom. See if you can arrange for her to be home so that you may have a party. Please don't do it behind her back. That's what gets kids in trouble with their parents. Show your Mom respect and she will in turn respect you. You will be very pleasantly surprised at how much better your relationship would be if you just show respect. Another great thing to do is let your Mom know where you are all the time so that she does not worry about you. If she is very strict with you, it is because she loves you and wants to make sure you are OK. All it takes is a simple phone call! Built up the trust with her and she shouldn't give you a hard time. Trust me it really works!!! Good Luck
2006-10-13 01:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by momma g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be your Mother! Have the party and you will get caught. We know are homes like the back of our hand. We smell things better than any drug dog out there. Besides we have someone watching you all the time, did you know that? The biggest mistake will be the trash you make. Why do you think we take so long when we take the garbage out. Your whole life story is amongst the garbage, giving away all your secrets. Do you feel lucky?
2006-10-13 01:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 21 and you plan on having beer there, don't do it! You are putting your mom responsible. If someone leaves your house and crashes, your mom could go to prison. I snuck friends over when my parents were at work too. I mean, who hasn't. The only thing we did was eat chips, drink some soda and watch T.V. Also, if you have these friends over, will they possibly steal anything? Do you have neighbors that will tell on you? That's how I got busted at 16 years old!! Just BE SMART!!
2006-10-13 01:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask your mom for a small party to have some friends over if she say yes go for it but if you do it with out her knowing about it you will loss all her trust in you and if the party is at her house things could go wrong and someone may get hurt and your mom will be the blam for it
2006-10-13 01:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. because if you do have the party and all of a sudden your mom decides to get off early your going to be in big trouble.
2006-10-13 01:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by kevin l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell THEM to have a party at their place...when they tell you they can't, ask "Why not?" bet it's because they'll get THEIR little butts in trouble. Don"t do it, trust me, there will be hell to pay!!! It's not worth it, and it will destroy any trust your mom has in you right now...remember your mom is working to make a better life for YOU...don't do her this way.
2006-10-13 01:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep down in your heart, you know what is right and what is wrong. Ask yourself if your Mom would approve, if the answer is no, then don't do it. After all, she is working to give you a good life.
2006-10-13 01:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this: When you have this party, and all your friends are drunk and puking on your mum's furniture and carpets, and when she finds out about this, as she will, WHO WILL BE GROUNDED - YOU OR YOUR SOCALLED FRIENDS??? Alright then, let them have a party at their house and take the risk of getting in trouble. Why should you be the sucker?
2006-10-13 01:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about what would happen if your mom found out and then think do you really want to go through with that?
2006-10-13 01:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by fazekasamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋