ok.here's the problem.i'm new to a college & my best guy friend(lets call him D) is one of my good friends bf(also,studying at the same college-lets call her R).me & D share 2 classes together while R has none with him.since recently,there have been some rumors that i like D & my other classmates have started these.R heard them & is very upset now(D also knows this,but it has changed nothing with the way i always associate with him,he's just the same as ever,it hasn't affected our friendship).i think she believes them.but the problem lies in the fact that i do like D,but i have been trying to hide that fact from everyone else cos i don't want to ruin thier relationship.so,my questions are..
1)does everyone else see that i really do have feelings for him which go beyond friendship?
2)how do i act now that i know there are these rumors?
3)sholud i confront my classmates abt spreading them?
4)how should i act with R(she doesn't talk to me as much plus,she's a very sensitive person)
2006-10-13 01:18:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
plus i have a feeling that though they may seem the perfect couple outwradly,there's a lack of communication between them cos R herself said that "me & D don't talk about those things a lot"...isn't this quite unusual?
2006-10-13 01:20:44 · update #1
I'm sorry the whole alphabet soup thing confused me.... But if you have fallen for your girl friends/boyfriend...ouch....lol..and it sounds like you have.Is this something your wanting to act on? Is he wanting to act on? In any event....someone is fixing to get hurt!.
2006-10-13 01:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't understand a thing because of the variables
2006-10-13 09:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by (v)ëgå-þïnK 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No you will hurt your friend`s feeling.Are you that selfish?
2006-10-13 09:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by truth set free 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋