I've been dating this guy since March '06. It got kinda hard when he moved to Cali, about 1200 miles away, cuz of the Navy. The story I'm about to tell you is strange...help me figure it out. My boyfriend has the area code 805 for his phone number, I don't know anyone else that has that area code.
7:50PM -- Phone call from an unknown 805 number, when I answered...the party hung up.
8:02PM -- Another call from the unknown 805 number, was hung up on again.
8:05PM -- I called the 805 number with my number blocked...the voicemail was a girls'.
9:12PM -- Recieved a picture txt msg from my boyfriend, from his mobile.
9:14PM -- I realized that he had sent the pic to not just me, but the 805 number that had called me earlier. (ie my mobile shows all numbers on group txt msgs)
10:12PM -- Called bf, he denied the whole thing, including knowing who's number it was.
The thing is...why would he be sending some random txt to a number he doesn't know. And why is this chick calling me?
2006-10-13 00:59:00 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds suspicious to me, i think you know what i mean. Go with your gut instinct, don`t let him make a fool of you.
2006-10-13 01:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say it, but he's probably seeing this chick on the side. She found out about you, and got curious, and decided to call you. But lacked the guts to say anything. Obviously, he must know who's number it is, because the odds of this girl calling you a few minutes beforehand and then him "accidentally" sending a pic to the same number are like 90 bazillion to 1. The fact that he is in "Deny deny deny" mode shows that he has a guilty conscience about something. And it is unlikely he is planning a surprise birthday or something like that for you with a chick you've never met. If you really want to, and you believe the other girl is in the dark about you (because she may KNOW about you even if he is cheating) - you can call her back w your number blocked and try to have a convo about it... but I doubt that's worth it. You've pretty much caught him red handed. Sorry to hear about the crappy situation. At least you know! Good luck! I hope you feel better soon.
2016-03-28 07:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you what i would personally think in this situation, but what i think may not nessesarilly be right. Obviously you are not imagining this, more than one phone call from this weird number means it's not an accident. Have you tried calling this number back to get a hold of this person? Thats what i would do. Did you ask him who the other person was that he set that picture to? I would feel pretty frusterated in your situation, without getting to the truth of the matter i think you might end up not trusting him an feeling resentful. Find out what is going on!
2006-10-13 01:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by tonka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best i can tell is he's been seeing more than just you! Sounds like he has two of you hanging and he's got some explaining to do to both of you, and doesn't want to or know how to. You got a call from the other girl cause she somehow found your number and she was as cursious as you were as to what was going on. Where you ever at his place while you were dating? How do you if he's not married and been lying to you? Seems to me the only person that can help you is your boyfriend. He needs to answer your questions with honesty. If he cant do that then you need to move on, and find one thats not a player!
2006-10-13 01:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by foxxy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ohhh. He's got someone else. Hopefully he isn't married and playing the "im single" line to you. Especially if both he and this mysterious caller has an 805 area code.
I would just leave that loser alone. Listen to your instincts and believe he's trying to get over on you. He's moved physically to Cali, and he might have moved on with another relationship as well.
Sorry.
2006-10-13 01:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by sugarapple25 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds a little odd, okay, wait he sounds VERY odd to me. If I were you I would block the 805 number and then if he keeps texting the pic, i would break it off with him and find someone where I was to be with...good luck.
2006-10-13 01:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh dear. Have you kept the 805 number. My advice - ring it from a different number - dont withold it and ask to speak to (b'f's name) and take it from there - if she asks questions tell her your his g/f and thought it might of been him calling you from a different number.
honest opinion is that somethings up. he might not be cheating - some men get kicks out of other women paying them attention - it could just be a phase he's going through.
2006-10-13 01:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is definitely up to something, sounds like the one with the 805 number is trying to find out who he is also sending messages to.
leave a message on her voicemail asking why she is calling you etc . you may get more of a answer from her than your boyfriend
best of luck with this situation you have
2006-10-13 01:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by ♥fluffykins_69♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it sounds very confusin ur right to be suspicious, my guess is he's cheatin and is playin u both, i reckon the other girl from the 805 area code number may have only just found out he's got a girl or might have just become suspicious herself and checked his phone, my guess is she wanted to hear if u we;re a girl and hung up after u said hello,
2006-10-13 01:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by KIPPAX 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say it could be your boyfriend checking up on you but since it was a girls voice mail that picked up then it sounds fishy to me,the girl may be calling you to "check you out",my husbands ex used to do that to me constantly,she had some weird obssession with calling me at 2 am every morning,she knew of me but knew nothing about me obviously he is keeping you in the dark about her so he may also be keeping her in the dark,she knows of you but doesn't know all the details she might just be curious about you but too chicken to actually speak to you and let you know she exists,maybe she has been told you are no longer in the picture but somehow she suspects otherwise,the next time she calls and if there is a pause before she hangs up try talking to her,say something like is this the girl my boyfriend has been seeing she may talk back
2006-10-13 01:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by onyxpryzm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for starters please change you number and do it as soon as possible and then,don't tell him about it for some time and youwill see he is getting restless,he's playing head games with you.
805 is a girls voice maile number,this should tell you she is very nosey from the other end and he's got a bit on the side.so your not his only one.
sorry the truth hurt's but you got to take it not just with a pinch of salt but a table spoon of salt.
the thing is he is not just sending random txt messages to number's he don't know come on get real here love txt you will send only to someone you know,unless your sick in the head and your sending them to strangers too.
stop and think about it.
your better alone then unhappy.
come honey you got a good brain and the penny has dropped with you and you are very smart please wake up pull yourself together,and move on honey,don't let head games be played on you.
please for my sake walk away,before ur caught in a trapp and you can't get out like me.
wake up honey please for my sake walk away while you can.
someone who deny's the truth is building a foundation of lies do you want your love to grow on a foundation of lie's.no no no
the pain will be there only as long as you don't let go move on honey move on and get a better life for your self please.please .good luck honey.i believe you can find better happyness then being depressed down to a looser.go on my love i wish you a better person.trust me he is out there be stond and don't let anyone tell you any different.please please.
2006-10-13 01:15:39 · answer #11 · answered by mariolla oneill 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋