this is a long sotry il keep it as short as poss my husband never knew his dad he left my mother in law when she was pregnant i serched and found him a few years back and after a few months he broke my husbands heart now he has decided to tell ym mother in law he loves her and always has which i dont believe and with in 3 weeks he has asked her to leave her job her house and all of us and go live with him 200 miles away and shes goign to do it my daighter wont see her nan again and my husband will not se ehis mum i knwo this man is using her and my head says let her live her own life but ym heart wont let me do it ive tried taking to her but she wont listen and i knwo if she goes an dit all goes wrong she will never admit it and never come back due to her stubborness what can i do
2006-10-13 00:56:15 · 8 answers · asked by bryony_ash83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i can not visit her if she goes due to the man she is going to be with and hwat he has done also she has young children that she is goign to take and im concerned for them
2006-10-13 01:01:25 · update #1
What a mess..... unfortunatley this woman is an adult that can think for herself and act for herself all you can do is give your advice maybe write a letter just voicing your concerns being as honest as possible, but ultimatley she will do what she wants to either way. you would think she has learned from her past mistakes but obviously she hasnt so you have to let her make the rest of them on her own no matter how hard it is for you and your husband.x
2006-10-13 01:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you cant do anything more than you already have. You have talked to her about it and she wont listen so why not advise her to go for a trial period and keep her house just in case. Maybe she can rent it out. Then if the worst happens she has somewhere to come back to at least. Let her know you all love her and will be there for her if she needs you anytime. Thats all you can really do..she is a grown woman. I hope things work out for you all.
2006-10-13 01:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the best thing to do is to let her know that you are worried for her because you care about her, but you respect her wishes and her right to be happy. Let her know that you will always be there fore her if she needs someone to talk to. This way, if she needs someone, which from what you have said she may do in the future, she will know that she can always turn to you.
2006-10-13 04:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by makehaysunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want her around for your own reasons, leave her to it it's her life and let her make her own decisions
2006-10-13 01:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lupee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her make her own mistakes. Visit her when you can and be supportive. There is nothing else you can do.
2006-10-13 01:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Emma W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at times yes
2006-10-13 00:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a big mess.
you have to let her do what she wants.
tell her how you feel and that you will always be here for her if she needs you.
2006-10-13 00:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by kiki_dees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can offer your advice to your MIL...but you cant pry and tell her what to do...she is an adult and old enough to make her own decision and live with the consequences...good luck
2006-10-13 00:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋