for fear of disappointing him?
2006-10-13 00:20:51 · 10 answers · asked by Inquirer 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I find myself offending them, to see whether they are bullsh*tting me...
They never are, cos I am awesome...but it is a good excuse to insult them a bit
2006-10-13 00:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually just let them know as gently as possible that they are not the kind of person I could get into a relationship and that I would like to remain friends unless that would be too difficult for them. Usually I end up with a really good friend out of it all.
I never avoid them unles they start getting clingy, which is when I let them know in no uncertain terms that they had known from the start it could never be more than friendship and I need a little time and space because I am feeling trapped and pressured.
Good luck whatever you decide to do.
2006-10-13 02:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by KJA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on my feelings towards this person to begin with. If i feel the same way well and good if i don't (which is more often than not) i will either let them know how i feel or avoid them as best as i can.Some guys tend to think because the are fond of you ,you ought to feel the same way about them .How thoroughly annoying.
2006-10-13 00:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by rennayo6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. If you don't like the person it can be very awkward to spend time with them, knowing they like you as more than a friend. You feel guilty because you know they have feelings for you but they don't have a chance in hell of being with you.
I guess I try to be as nice as possible about it to spare their feelings. If they're a good friend of mine, I just brush it off and act like they didn't say anything. If they weren't a close friend and the thought of them being fond of me creeps me out, I'd be more likely to avoid them. They'll take the hint. Just don't make a big deal about it by making fun of them to all your friends. It's best to keep it a secret and respect their feelings.
2006-10-13 00:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends whether i am friends with the person before he confesses that he is fond of me. If we are friends, then i will not avoid the person.
2006-10-13 00:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I appreciate being "let in" a little. It is not like I'm going to track him down and demand a ring or something.
2006-10-13 00:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by turtle girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, i actually like to tease them and maybe, just maybe, they will grow on me and i might learn to like them back.
2006-10-13 00:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont tell me that
2006-10-13 02:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by pahump1@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually.....their creepy
2006-10-13 00:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, why would i?
2006-10-13 00:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋