i have been engaged to this guy since february, we have 1 baby together and about to have a second, we did live together but he wasnt ready to play house so to speak yet, so i went back to my parents house found and job and now i'm about to have our second child and things started messing up, i cant say anything to him that he doesnt take as i'm accusing him of something but i try to tell him that what i said was just as a joke and then he automatically goes the route of splitting up, i want to make things work and he says he does, but i need to know how to win his heart for good and cooking for him and all of that kind of stuff didnt seem to work.
2006-10-13 00:20:07 · 4 answers · asked by Babydoll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
id like to say it would be easy to talk to him, but its not, he wont answer his phone, and when i sit down and try to talk to him he acts like he isnt listening. He gets like this only when his little sister is around she seems to run everything or think she can anyways, and she always seems to ruin our start to a wonderful relationship. I need to know what to say to him to capture his heart for good.
2006-10-13 00:30:32 · update #1
can anyone tell me how to get him to chase after me?
2006-10-13 00:37:02 · update #2
i love him to pieces and want things to work out between him and i. when i moved out it took 3 weeks and he came over and proposed to me, but when he proposed he said he dont care what anyone else says. I am taking care of my children, i have one with my ex husband and now will be 2 with my fiance, he does care, i can see it in his eyes, especially when i have our child along with me, but i dont ever want to use my children for leverage its not fair to them. The night i left and moved out, i made him cry, there's only two people so far that anyone knows of that can make him cry, his dad and myself, i felt awful about it later, but i did say what i needed to say to get thru to him that time, but i dont know what to say to him now, almost a year later.
2006-10-13 00:49:25 · update #3
i seems like everything i say is wrong and i dont know how to get his attention anymore, i mean im still waiting for my child to be born his second child i mentioned, but i dont know what to say to catch his attention anymore.
2006-10-15 00:48:10 · update #4
Why do you want to be with this guy? sounds like he really does not care for you. You should just leave him alone for awhile and concentrate on taking care of yourself and your kids. let him realize what he is missing . He sounds like a real jerk. you can find someone better. He is not interested in playing house so to speak then why did he have kids with you. He is a nut case. Get away from him and file for child support and you will find someone better for you and your kids in time. Be glad you did not marry this loser. Good Luck.
2006-10-13 00:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever hurt u physically?? If he has thn he is very wrong 4 u. I understand that u have children withhim but why don't tell him that i wan't 2 work this our for our children. You could also try 2 talk 2 his family 2 see if they can help u.. and if things don't work out and u can't look after the kids then i advice u 2 adopt
2006-10-13 00:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you need to let hI'm chase you, he will keep playing this 'game' if you don't. your the mother of his children you should be his princess!!
stand up for what u believe in and let him run after you, sometimes the truth hurts as well, maybe he is just not right for you......im sorry but i think he's the one who needs to be on here, asking the questions not you honey x
2006-10-13 00:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by princesskel82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really think about this..because you don't want to regret anything, but if it seems like you both are fighting alot now..think about the future!! GoodLuck â¥
2006-10-13 00:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋