No, real love is the basis and by - product of marriage. I fell in love with my husband and who he was. After several years, 4 pregnancies, and 2 kids, I love him even more. He is my partner in this life, the father of my children, the other name on my checking account. We have a history together that keeps getting better. Do we fight? Yes. But we also listen, look each other in the eye and say 'I'm Sorry' - and we mean it. Do we have days that we are too tired to even kiss each other, much less more? Yes. But we also have days when the kids are away and we totally make up for that. We challenge one another to grow, and we support one another if we fall.
If you want dinner for two with blind adoration; then get yourself a puppy. You'll have fewer illusions shattered that way...
2006-10-13 01:01:57
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answered by Arya 2
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I like your cynicism on marriage. Good expressions on the reality of love and marriage. But I hope you are not trying to breakdown the institution of marriage. Love without marriage lead to lack of responsibility and sets the stage for more children without concerned parents. Which makes love a poor way of making this world a better place.
2006-10-13 18:00:17
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answered by DAX 2
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Well guys have to completely disagree - married over 30 years and love is sweet - kids are no bother, money not too tight still have holidays and everything we need.
In fact marriage means all the above and more - try it some time.
2006-10-13 00:22:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Be there for her and attempt and get her to talk to her father and mom... via her speaking to them supplies her greater innovations on wether or no longer she needs to maintain it or perhaps adoption she has greater innovations now than she would be in a position to later. Her father and mom will discover out at last in simple terms confirm that is to no longer late. And be a reliable pal and attempt and help/handbook her to make the innovations she needs and not what every person "needs" her to do because of fact she am has to handle it afterward in existence no remember what she decides... and prefer the female till now pronounced her father and mom will enhance to the assumption and specific there's a huge gamble they're going to unfastened it however the will no longer injury her or the baby. So motivate her to make her judgements which will benefit her interior the tip.
2016-10-19 07:48:34
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answered by ? 4
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I'd say you (and a few of the answerers) have a fairly limited or slanted view on marriage and what true love really is. Obviously you haven't found it yet. When you do....write a better poem.
2006-10-13 09:07:00
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answered by Rembrandt11 3
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yes go and have a good drink and then some good sex followed by a nice curry and youl soon feel better
2006-10-13 00:13:59
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answered by sleepwalker69 6
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Could be.... was married twice, but my first wife died. Hey, I got even more statements like that.
2006-10-13 00:22:18
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answered by luosechi 駱士基 6
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That is exactly right.
2006-10-13 00:15:10
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answered by Billys girl 3
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true true
2006-10-13 00:14:46
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answered by Anonymous
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